The goddess of love, Aphrodite, was the image of a perfect woman. She could bend all men to her will, as long as they weren't in love of course. She, as a matter of fact, did NOT have a flat stomach. She had 'jelly rolls', as some call it. That was considered beautiful, and I think it should still be.
Eat want you want. Don't exercise, if you don't want to. Do what you want, be who you want. Don't let your weight get in your way. I'm not large, but I don't have a flat stomach either, and I am constantly reminded by this every time I look in the mirror.
I don't want to be rated 1 to 10. Because, obviously I am a 100, as are all of you. This goes out to the male population as well. Be confident! I know, 'easier said than done'. I've been there. Then I saw a post about Aphrodite, and that helped a lot. I hope it can help someone else as well.