NoahVrakos

අයියේ කොහොමද ඉතින් ඔයා හොදින් ඉන්නවා නේදෝඕඕ ❤️

And thank you for reading love❤️

I live by one simple rule: never go to bed angry.
          
          Life is too short, and love too precious to waste even one day in silence or resentment. We all have moments when tempers flare, words slip out wrong, or pride steps in the way, but I’ve learned that for peace of mind and peace in love, it's worth swallowing a bit of pride.
          
          If you went to bed upset last night, or if something still feels unfinished between you and someone you care about, take a moment today to fix it. Say what needs to be said, even if it’s awkward or hard. Apologize if you should, listen if you need to. Then just hug it out. There’s so much healing in that.
          
          Don’t let a small disagreement cast a shadow over something you’ve spent so much time building with care and love. The truth is, no relationship is perfect, but choosing to make things right, again and again, that’s what makes it strong. It's never too late to do the right thing as long as the people you love and care about are around.
          
          Hold your people close, love them deeply, and be grateful for every morning you get to wake up beside someone you care about. Don't let ego get in the way. ❤️

November might not sparkle with the same colors as October, but it has its own magic. It’s the month that invites us to slow down and wrap ourselves in soft blankets, share stories over warm drinks, and find joy in the small, familiar things.
          
           November, on its own way brings peace, slows down time, and softens the world. The trees rest, the air cools, and the days feel like gentle reminders to pause and savor life. It’s a time to notice what truly matters: the people who make our hearts feel full and the peace that comes from simply being.
          
          So make yourself that extra cup of coffee, open a well-loved book, listen to your favorite playlist, or do what makes your heart come alive, and let November remind you that even in the quiet, life can be beautifully warm.

If you want your relationship to last.
          Then you’re going to have to learn a lot about forgiveness. Learn a lot about sacrifice.
          About sometimes putting what you feel aside in order to make things work.
          You’re going to have to get used to losing every once in a while.
          Get used to not getting what you want sometimes.
          Get used to sharing the spotlight.
          Sharing what’s yours. Your mind. Body. And soul.
          
          You’re going to have to learn how not to be alone all the time. How to share your deepest thoughts and secrets with someone you love. How to be vulnerable.
          And how to be okay with this change.
          If you want to make a relationship work, then you must learn about these things.
          
          Because these things will make the difference between how much you’ll grow together. Between how long it will last.

සිදුහත් - යශෝදරා තරම් ප්‍රේමනීය පෙම් පුවතක් 
          මේ සසර පුරාවටම ඔබ අසා නැත 
          සාජහන් - මුම්ටාස් පුවත තරම් ප්‍රේමයක නටඹුන් 
          මේ දිවිය පුරාවටම ඔබ දැක නොමැත 
          රෝමියෝ - ජූලියට් ආලය තරම් ඛේදාන්තයක් 
          ඔබ කිසි දිනෙක විඳින්නේද නැත 
          එහෙත්, 
          කලියුගයේ රෝමියෝ වන්නට සිහින මවමින් 
          ජූලියට් සොයන ගමනේදී 
          එක් පාරක් වැරදුනු සැනින් ඔබ 
          මතට තැබූ තිතට කොමා දමන්නට යයි.....!

මුර ගාන කුසගින්න සනසවා යන්තමින්
          කැන්ටිමෙන් ගත් පරිප්පුත් පාන් කාලෙන්
          තෙමාගත් උගුරත් වැඩි සීනි තේ යාරෙන්
          රස තවත් නොදැනේ කෑවත් අමුර්තෙන්
          
          හැමදාම අදිනා රැලි ගැහුනු ඩෙනිමෙන්
          මුල් පාට ගිලිහිලා දැන් අදින ටී කමිසෙන්
          ලෙල්ලටම ගෙවි ගිය බාටා යුගලයෙන්
          සැරසිලා පිය නගමි ගැරහුවත් සමාජෙන්
          
          එක වේලකුයි කන්නේ දිනට බත් බාගෙන්
          විදින දුක් අපි දන්නෙ ඩිග්‍රි වල නාමෙන්
          ඩිග්‍රියට පලක් නැත අප ගෙවන දිවියෙන්
          දෙවියනේ අයදිමි පිහිටක් ඔබේ නාමෙන්....!

Maturity is realizing that none of us are easy to be with. It is about who is willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you. Real love is when someone stays through all versions of you.
          
          It takes patience to love a real human being. Some days you will talk things through. Other days you will sit in silence until the storm passes. What matters is that both of you keep choosing to stay kind, to listen, to come back to each other after misunderstandings. Growth together means learning each other’s simple needs, how you like to be comforted, when you need space, what words feel safe, what jokes go too far. It means asking instead of assuming. It means saying, “Teach me how to love you better" and actually listening to the answer.
          
          Love is built in small daily efforts. Checking in, remembering the little details, giving credit, showing respect in front of others, celebrating wins and holding each other through losses. These quiet acts say, “I’m with you for the long road, not just for the fun moments.” The right person will not expect perfection. They will expect honesty, effort, a willing heart. They stay when conversations are messy, when healing takes time, when growing hurts a little. Together you both become easier to love because you feel safe being real.
          
          In the end, maturity is choosing the person who chooses you back on hard days and beautiful days. Stay with the one who wants to understand you and grow beside you, step by step. That’s the kind of love that lasts.

Always carry yourself with grace. Do not feel and make yourself less than what actually you are. You’re so loved and worthy of every good things. The way you will take yourself is the way people will also take you. So be your top supporter.
          
          Don’t wait for others to remind you of your worth, remind yourself every single day. Talk to yourself kindly. Be proud of your heart, your journey, all the little steps you take even when no one sees them. You don’t need to put yourself down to make others comfortable. Let your light shine and those who are meant for you will see it anyway. Remember, confidence doesn’t mean being loud or perfect. It means knowing who you are, staying calm in your truth, not letting the world change your softness. You can be gentle and still strong. You can be quiet and still powerful.
          
          So walk with your head held high. Believe that you are enough, not because someone else said it, but because you feel it within. Love yourself the way you want others to love you. Respect yourself the way you expect respect. Be someone so strong that no one would even dare to blow out your light. Take care of yourself so deeply that other people’s damage can't reach your peace. And never forget that when you carry yourself with love and grace, you invite the same kind of love into your life.
          
          Keep showing up for yourself even on the hard days. Be patient with your growth. Be loyal to your peace. Life becomes more beautiful when you stop doubting your worth and start embracing your light just as you are.

Many people say that you glow differently when you're with the right person but let me tell you that sometimes the right person is you and no one else. Loving yourself is not selfish, it doesn't make you arrogant or someone with a high standard. In fact it is a necessity and something that will make you realized the things that you need to know about yourself. You will see things at your own perspective and you will realized that you don't need other people eyes to define your beauty, you don't need someone to tell you that you're worthy and valuable, you don't need to changed yourself just to liked by someone. You will learn to smile while appreciating your own uniqueness. You will learn to value your passion and your dreams that you cherished the most.
          
          You will understand that happiness is an inside job and you don't need anyones validation or affection to make you feel that contentment because yourself is your biggest commitment.