PARTH_JAYA

Let’s call it what it is:
          	This is **financial manipulation**.
          	This is **emotional abuse**.
          	This is **gendered neglect** hiding behind the mask of “responsibility.”
          	My father behaves like he’s a struggling man doing his best, while guilt-tripping me and pushing me to beg his father — just like a **husband demanding dowry from a bride’s family**.
          	And my grandfather? Playing the same game — giving just enough to keep me silent but never enough to actually feel valued.
          	I topped my exams. I earned my reward. But I’m still made to feel like a burden.
          	To every Indian daughter who's ever been told:
          	* “Adjust with what you have.”
          	* “We don’t have money *for you* right now.”
          	* “Let your brother use it.”
          	* “Why do you need an expensive phone?”
          	Let me say it: **You are not asking too much.**
          	You’re just asking for what’s fair.
          	And to the fathers out there — if you're treating your daughter like a liability while throwing money at your sons and yourself...
          	 **You're not being "strict" or "practical." You're being selfish, sexist, and controlling.**
          	Do better.

PARTH_JAYA

Let’s call it what it is:
          This is **financial manipulation**.
          This is **emotional abuse**.
          This is **gendered neglect** hiding behind the mask of “responsibility.”
          My father behaves like he’s a struggling man doing his best, while guilt-tripping me and pushing me to beg his father — just like a **husband demanding dowry from a bride’s family**.
          And my grandfather? Playing the same game — giving just enough to keep me silent but never enough to actually feel valued.
          I topped my exams. I earned my reward. But I’m still made to feel like a burden.
          To every Indian daughter who's ever been told:
          * “Adjust with what you have.”
          * “We don’t have money *for you* right now.”
          * “Let your brother use it.”
          * “Why do you need an expensive phone?”
          Let me say it: **You are not asking too much.**
          You’re just asking for what’s fair.
          And to the fathers out there — if you're treating your daughter like a liability while throwing money at your sons and yourself...
           **You're not being "strict" or "practical." You're being selfish, sexist, and controlling.**
          Do better.

PARTH_JAYA

 The Harsh Reality of Being a Daughter in an Indian Family
          
          So my phone just died. Blank screen, not turning on. And when I told my mom, guess what my *so-called* father had to say?
           “It’s because you charge it all night. It must be your fault.”
          Yeah. Blame me for a phone dying. Classic.
          Then he says, *“Ask your grandfather for the money. I can’t buy you a new phone.”*
          Mind you — he’s very much alive, fully capable, and **very loaded with money.**
          Still, I felt **humiliated** having to ask my grandfather (his father) for help, as if I’m some orphan being passed around for charity. Grandpa “loves me” but says he can only give ₹15k. Fine.
          I find a phone for ₹25k. Reasonable, especially since I literally need it for college. But my father — the man who bought **two ₹30k phones** for himself and my brother (who hasn’t even started college) — says:
           “I can't afford ₹10k more for your phone. I have to pay both your and your brother’s college fees, which will cost ₹2.5 lakhs.”
          Suddenly, **my basic need becomes a burden.**
          Then he comes up with this brilliant offer:
          **“If you give your laptop to your brother and use my old one, I’ll buy the new phone.”**
          Oh, you mean the *same laptops* that were bought using the ₹1 lakh that my grandfather promised **me** for scoring **97% in Inter**?
          Let that sink in. My **own reward money** — spent on laptops for others. Now I’m being told to hand over mine and adjust. Again.
          And then grandpa calls: *“Why did you say no to the ₹15k phone? You have to adjust, right? Your father doesn’t have money...”*
          Lies. He has money. He just won’t spend it on me. Because **daughters are expected to “adjust.”**

PARTH_JAYA

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Wattapd is filled with loser shit head ardi fans who think mb is all about ardi n forbidden ass love lmaoo fuck u all bitches sluts hope u get fucked up by fate because of your wrong shit books that insult draupadi n her love for her husbands

PARTH_JAYA

Losers will block lmao maybe you hate women who are right no wonder all your stories have u trying to show women as bad as possible lmaoo I mean i can see the way u responded to my genuine comment maybe ur back is too big and ugly to respond in such a disgusting way. @blurredlines10

PARTH_JAYA

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I hope my so called """"' gets born as a fucking women in his next birth and go through level 1000 cramps whenever he get period and I hope I get to be his """""" who's going to make him clean the whole house always call him to help even after knowing he's on periods. Fuck him. I hope I get the chance to make him do everything he did with me