@AtlasTriton776 I don't understand why people often rush ships in general as I like some time before entering a relationship, granted I don't like the ones where it feels like forever but that's just me and my tastes.
As for updates, I try to post whenever I can as I have a lot going on IRL with my family, I also struggle to get my thoughts into words and try to make them coherent. I do try to at least post once a month but I don't often get it.