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Update in the friend group drama.
I'm PISSED.
So not only did the group leader lie to my face about what happened, but added things to the story to make this one girl as the victim. I texted the group leader, apologizing that this was all happening and that I can't pick a side, since if you know me, I can't pick a side at all.The group leader then got mad at me since I kept blaming things on myself since that's what I usually do, and HERE is the actual thing that they said group leader said:
" Can you stop with the self pity shit? And shut the fuck up about the 'I wanna be friends with all of you' because that's not how it fucking works! When the friend group falls apart there's two options, you pick a side or you just leave it entirely, you can't please everyone and you will never be able to, you're always going to piss someone off to the point you shouldn't give a fuck about what anyone thinks about you, I've been drowning like this for YEARS and have I ever said shit like that?No, I either pick a side or leave for a bit, do any of you know how much I do?!No! I listen to everyone's problems sure I don't act like __ when listening but I listen and stay silent about my own issues because you don't deserve to ranted to for hours like that and feeling guilty you can't fix it"
..You shifted my said emotions with clear distress on yourself,and began to rant about your problems,when I just opened up about everything that the friend group did to me,good and bad and that I couldn't pick a side.
And then posted this video
https://youtube.com/shorts/XYtB5WD7ge4?si=jy2JkJLeY_3Hoic6
Not the vent but the title. You caused this YOURSELF, you babied P to make her feel everything that she does is good.I myself tried to make amends.I only rhate you since you proceeded to call me out, you called me out on all of insecurities.You fucking humiliated my feelings, and shouted at me.You got mad at me for not being able to decide. So no,you don't deserve sympathy.