I have been happily married for 22 years and have 3 Awesome kids.   My oldest son is going to be 22 in November.  The middle child is 20 and my son never suffered from the middle child syndrome of feeling like he was being neglected by us. He was our Dennis the Menace. The baby of the family is 17 and she is my valley girl nerd. Lol. My husband and I just found out he has a rare disease called MELAS.  He had a bad stroke or episode in August.  We are  leaving it in God's  hands and praying.