XenonLuxius
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ThatFanOfManyFandoms
ThatFanOfManyFandoms
yk even if you were to get revenge on someone
would you really feel satisfied?
maybe for a bit, but not really
that feeling is temporary
and then its more like you wasted your time on someone you shouldnt even bother with anymore; you were better off spending you time doing something that would give you permanent happiness (or at least more than revenge)
though it can only be said for some cases of what the person has done but idk
just a random thought yk
i have all sorts going through my head these days
ThatFanOfManyFandoms
Has anyone played animal hospital here
ThatFanOfManyFandoms
Guys question for you all
Should a person be in a relationship if;
A. They are not mentally okay (and are not recieving professional help / are undiagnosed but you can tell they have something such as depression)
B. They have poor time management / dedication / easily distracted (in short im saying they can't like stick to something so they'll end up forgetting stuff alot and what not)
For both I think no they shouldn't
With A, I think they should be getting help or trying to feel better first before trying to be with someone - they might end up hurting them due to that possibly ? Or hurt themselves
With B, I think like they can't dedicate themselves to their partner, spend time with them or ect. because like they keep getting distracted and getting engrossed in one thing that they forget about their partner
But then again it all depends on the person
Idk this was just a random thought
nagitoandkokichiSIMP
@ThatFanOfManyFandoms i would say no to both but especially the first one which is because they need to get help first before getting into any relationships :3
Furina_De_fontaine-
@ThatFanOfManyFandoms honestly, If you know A is unable to care of themselves and you’re worried abt them, I think it’s best they find the help and (not to be mean) avoid having to carry for another person especially in relastionships. I think it’s better they focus on themselves tbh but just being there for them yk? But for b maybe have a conversation with them abt the stuff it’s its major stuff like forgetting birthdays or anniversaries them most definitely should not be in a relationship what so ever. In regards for both, I think both shouldn’t be in a relationship-…. It’s like caring for a baby or a pet that need a lot of attention that both parties physically cannot give… in my opinion if they seek help or keep reminders for stuff, then they shouldn’t be in a relationship. It’s only gonna cause problems and future conflicts :sob sob:
Sky_treasure
@ThatFanOfManyFandoms I think it depends on whether they are willing to change or not. A's not getting professional help now, but if their partner suggest that they should go to therapy and if A is willing to do that, then A might be able to have a good relationship. As for B, if they take responsibility for forgetting things and put effort to put a reminder next time, then their relationship could work. But if they are not putting any effort to change, or take accountability for their actions, then yes they shouldn't be in a relationship. Also, regarding A, since they are mentally unwell, there's a chance that their partner can easily manipulate them and control their life. And A might heavily depend on their partner, which isn't good for them. But it depends, if they have an understanding and kind partner, then that won't happen
RanchDragon5
My phone is being mean, so I couldn't respond but! You can always make it platonic, and there's no rush.
ThatFanOfManyFandoms
genuinely im gonna take the lone wolf role fr next year
all my friends are becoming prefects for my school meaning they wont be at lunch and they wont be in all the lessons and then i'll just be there </3
just brilliant
also ty to anyone who said happy birthday to me the other day
ThatFanOfManyFandoms
Its my birthday yay
I got a kohane figure and a VBS themed party lmao
ThatFanOfManyFandoms
este mensaje puede ser ofensivo
ykw i fucking realised why i dont trust anyone because every single time my problems get dismissed or ignored or treated like oh yeah im fucking lying just because i didnt fucking stick to what i said
why dont i just jump out into open traffic atp im too tired for this shit anymore
i hate maths, i hate gcses, i hate my entire life and being
Angry_____Lumine
@ThatFanOfManyFandoms I have trust issues too, dorm worry. I don't want be too attached anymore online,next thing you know in matter of years something crazy or tragic break us apart. Remember people got alot time of there hands, so many twisted people like to make others suffer or irritate to rage bait them. can't let then get no power, by not letting it get to you.
ThatFanOfManyFandoms
i should try talk to the people i used to be close friends with before
say hi guys okay
nagitoandkokichiSIMP
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@ThatFanOfManyFandoms OH SHIT, SO SORRY ABOUT NOT TALKING TO U FOR THE PAST MONTHS, I WAS IN A SITUATION, BUT HIIIIIIII, I MISSED TALKING TO U
paimonnnstew
@ThatFanOfManyFandoms HELLO HELLO(i don'tthink we were that close, but i am lowkey in the same situation soo yippers?)
ThatFanOfManyFandoms
i feel like a persons writing is like a look into their soul and how they feel yk
Soficreates257
@ThatFanOfManyFandoms Meanwhile my stuff is structured like a transcript so I guess my soul is fast paced + straightforward and I feel like a robot (makes sense, I feel like I live life on autopilot)