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also, something upset me today. my 4 y-o brother was messing around and looking at my 1-y-o sister's new dress, and my grandmother just snaps at him and goes "put that down! that's not for boys." and it took all but my entire being not to leave the table. it's so stupid, clothes don't have fucking gender rules, and my brother can wear whatever the fuck he wants. if he wants to wear a dress or a skirt in the future, i will find him a dress or a skirt. anything to make him happy. fuck off grandma