Bi   Have always lived the bdsm lifestyle. subs with a male Dom, Domme with  female subs.   Pisces, empath, Larrie, artist, will trade rascists for refugees, awash in a sea of mediocrity & apathy, music saves lives, writer, loner, suffers from depression, anxiety, & ptsd, Oxford comma supporter, all rights are human rights, Black Lives Matter, "internet friends" are friends, the days are long, but the years are short.  You can ask me anything, I'd rather educate the curious, than people get the wrong information.  Knowledge is the one thing, people cannot take from you.  Travel is the best gift you can give yourself.  Originally from the Chicago area. My best mate lives in Australia, which sucks, but I've been twice (fuck house spiders that are the size of dinner plates)!  Female. Never depend on someone for your emotional, or financial stability. Life is hard, butch up. It is okay to be alone. You have to love yourself first, and I struggle with that.