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@WestHamBabe
Holy shit, sugar! Glad to hear you're doing better, even if the progress SEEMS slow at first!
I know the feeling, though - had to have my own first-ever surgery back in November, 'cuz I suffered a 3rd gallbladder attack so bad, I was ready to BEG my mother to just shoot me & put me outta my misery... The first 2 or 3 Days after surgery, I pretty much HAD to have a narcotic & an ice pack just to sleep & go to the bathroom - if I didn't have 'em, forget it.
If you're anything like I am, it won't take long for ya to get back into the swing of things, post-op - it'll just SEEM & FEEL like it till ya do. Gods know it took only a couple weeks to be able to pick my cats up again, & they don't weigh very much - it just FELT like it was a month to me - so don't get discouraged right outta the starting gate.
~Bean Sidhe