So some people asked about the wilbur thing, here's a quick summary:
Shelby did a Stream talking about an ex that abused her. Didn't NAME the ex, but there were enough details for it to point toward Wilbur. There was biting and disrespected "no" and disrespected safewords amoung other things
Social media war between "don't specultate" crowd and "it's obviously him" crowd.
Wilbur posted a PR sounding statement that confirm he was the ex, but that didn't cover exactly what was done and brushed a "I thought the biting was consensual, I have text saying it was"
Ccs have spoken their support to Shelby and trashed Wilbur's "apology" (once again, it feel more like a PR statement addressing the allegation more than an apology)
Other people are demanding some Ccs to give their opinion (Phil and Tommy who are both not online, Phil being in vaycay and Tommy out of surgery and focussing on tour and both probably big in shock)