"Be alone. Eat alone, take yourself on dates, sleep alone. In the midst of this 
you will learn about yourself. You will grow, you will figure out what inspires 
you, you will curate your own dreams, your own beliefs, your own stunning 
clarity, and when you do meet the person who makes your cells dance, you will 
be sure of it, because you are sure of yourself."

new chapters on "uphill" are whenever i'm not being demolished by the jerk that is life.