@schisms thank you!! yeah, i deleted it because the comments were getting out of hand. she probably has a white complexion and that's where she got the idea of people having a darker complexion than her are coming off racist when she says she's black. which in most cases, it isn't racist, it's judgement. it doesn't matter if the first word in "synonyms" for racism is prejudice, that doesn't mean anything. racism is a BELIEF. prejudice is an OPINION. she was way out of line and i just deleted it to save herself from embarrassment because she really was just making herself look like a fool, plus i wasn't down to argue. i'd whip out facts, upon facts, upon facts. but that's what she believes, she believes that she's right even though she's wrong and those are the hardest people to deal with. so usually, as my mom would like to say, "we ain't gonn' deal with that bc we ain't got time for that. now go stir my noodles."