Hi guys,
How are you all?
I wanted to ask you something. First, do you have best friends? If yes, how many, and what are they like? I have two best friends (I won’t mention their names, but for understanding, let’s call one AL and the other NA). Both of them are very different from each other, which isn’t bad—everyone is unique.
Recently, AL and NA had a fight over something that seems silly. NA had a Messi keychain on her bag. Since there aren’t many Messi fans in our class, some classmates teased her about it, just jokingly. AL decided to play a joke too and gave NA’s keychain a “makeover”—she drew on its cheek with a pink highlighter and painted its lips red. NA got really upset and ignored us for the rest of the day. AL realized her mistake and apologized, but NA continued being dramatic and only talked to some other classmates.
Then, NA started ignoring me as well. I didn’t understand why because it wasn’t my fault. While walking home, I asked her why she was ignoring me and why she hadn’t forgiven AL, but she ignored me again. I asked her the next day too, and even after asking more than ten times, she kept ignoring me. Eventually, I had to gently drag her to the washroom to talk. She said, “Will you move and let me go?” That really hurt me and broke my heart because I wasn’t at fault and she was ignoring both of us.
What should I do? Should I try talking to her again?
I won’t talk to her as I have self respect & dignity