Honey I sympathize with you. Life can throw some real curve balls. And they are not fun. But even in the USA going from South to North, traditions are different. Even the way everyone thinks and talks is different , even East to West. Even racism can be a problem. I have never been racist, I see no point in it we all have red blood and alive. I feel for you. Moving is definitely no fun. Moved to many times first 13 yrs of marriage, with young kids. I know where you’re coming from. Just do what you can when you can. You’re human after all. I enjoy your books and updates. Hope all goes well with your journey in this life. Your fan forever.