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So ummm, i found out that i was in a toxic friendship and that i was being manipulated. He kept saying things like "if u ever left me id hurt myself" and shit like that. Or when i told him that i had purposefully burnt myself because i felt numb and anytime we started jokingly arguing he would say things like "ok mr iburnmyself" and guilt me anytime that i didnt want to hang out. He has called me ugly, a coward, a stupid bitch (not as a joke), got upset that i wouldnt date him because im aromantic, wouldnt respect my boundaries, and pointed out all of the insecurities that i opened up to him about. Im dealing with it and im trying to stop being peoples punching bag.