@kaylor0313 it's true... that's why i tried so hard avoiding her the last 4 yrs of my life. hahahah you know, it's a small world... but... right now... she messaged me and asked me if we're good to be okay like very civil with each other... you know, i loved her so much and i took care of her for 3 yrs... even though she cheated on me, i still cant be rude to her. yes, i was mad... but it think now, not anymore. so i dont know why i am telling you this. i am oversharing. hahahaha but... i do have one TOTGA too and she's married now... she's my bestfriend. we're friends now after 8 yrs since we broke up. i still love her to bits.