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i’ve seen a lot of girls, very young indeed and even virgins (which there’s so wrong in!), say their taste in men are older.. because they’re more “mature” and boys are stupid— it frustrates me, so dearly.
you’re the stupid one. i am as well.
sure, little you think you so mature for your age and being eighteen or younger, even older. you don’t know any better. you haven’t experienced life yet (maybe have gotten a little taste of it. sure, yet nothing like a fully grown man)
there are so many pros and cons to this topic. quite toxic. everyone hasn’t wrapped their heads around this almost illicit topic nor fully understood it, or even taking it into consideration. okay.
they, older men, find you so so vulnerable, since your brain hasn’t fully developed and theirs has. they have more life experience than you. they like your innocence and naïveté, there’s in need for an older figure in your life (daddy issues) or you just have a pain attraction to someone older. i don’t blame you.
please, remember their power. their behavior as well. their independence and stability in life. they’re grown. full on adults. you’re easier to manipulate and lure you in. they can control you, every inch of you. remember! there are always consequences and they can hurt, even make you severely ill.
i bet you’re thinking, that that’s never going to happen to me. i’m a young independent woman, who knows her shit. watch and learn, doll. but, you’ll never know, but always remember!
yes, i, vilhelmine, i’ve been with multiple older men and women. it sure wasn’t a fucking fairytale. i’m seventeen and learned the hard way. yes, i’m still lusting over men who are around my father’s age even older (we shall not talk about jdm). but, anyway, i know and have learned from my previous mistakes.
my brain or ours haven’t fully developed it or maybe it has, just remember their experience of life, sexual acts, and behavior.
but, you do you, girlie xx