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Some days are just confusing for us. We can't come to a conclusion about what is actually happening to us. You feel every emotion at once, and at the same time, you can't even name what you are feeling. You don't even feel like doing your favorite activities, and you also don't feel like interacting with your loved ones. Days like these also exist, and they are difficult to go through because nothing makes sense to you during those times. And it's even more difficult to explain it to someone when your own emotions are confusing to you as well.
          
          One of the hardest feelings to explain is when your emotions become confusing. You are not happy, but you are not completely sad either. You want someone to understand you, but at the same time, you don't want to talk to anyone. You feel like crying, but your tears don't come out. You feel like saying so much, but your mind gives you no words.This is what confused emotions can feel like.
          
          Many people think they are becoming cold or heartless because they don't react the way they used to. But the truth is, sometimes your mind becomes so tired that it stops expressing emotions the way it normally does. It is not because you don't care. It is because you have been carrying too much for too long.
          
          Imagine carrying a heavy bag every single day. At first, your shoulders hurt. After some time, you stop noticing the pain because your body gets used to it. The pain is still there, but you no longer react to it in the same way.Don't overwhelm yourself by thinking that you are being ridiculous or that something is wrong with you. It's okay. You are being normal. Things will make sense one day. I know it's painful for you right now, but never lose hope.

currently soft launching the idea of a pink peekaboo to my mum (i may be starting an apprenticeship in childcare in sept and have no idea if they’ll accept it)

MAYBE TONIGHT WE DONT GOTTA RUN AWAY ITS ALL A LIE THE BADDEST BITCHES AINT IN LA

i want pink hair so bad i’m actually crying 

Everyone has a different story and different goals to achieve. We all have different ways of fulfilling our dreams and following our passion. Each one of us faces many difficulties and has to endure a lot while trying to cope with everything in our daily lives. Sometimes you may feel that there is no possibility of successfully reaching your goal because of the hurdles you face every day. At times, you become mentally and physically exhausted, which leaves you feeling numb, and you don't have the enthusiasm to continue your work. Let me tell you, that's normal.
          
          Some days are exhausting. They make you feel like you just want to lie on your bed and do nothing. You don't feel productive. Some days, procrastination is at its peak, and there is nothing ridiculous about it. It happens, and you shouldn't blame yourself too much. Make a mental note that days like this exist, and you can make up for them on your productive days. Productive days exist too, so don't forget them. Just because some days make you feel lazy and exhausted doesn't mean you should start feeling worse about yourself.
          
          Another thing is that when people fall on their way, they often consider it a failure. But falling on your way is not a failure. You have only stumbled; you haven't reached your goal yet. You will face obstacles along the way, so remember that. Don't let people who have never set a goal judge you, because they don't know the value of hard work and hardships. Their words may hurt, I know, but don't let their judgment get so deep into your mind that you start losing your motivation to achieve your goal. When you fall, it means you are putting effort into something, and you are serious about it. That should be your mindset. It's painful to fall, but that pain is a sign that you are not giving up on your dreams and that you still have hope within you.

When you decide to stay positive after being negative for a long time, your mind starts making you regret many things. It's so easy to feel negative because your mind is always ready for it, but staying positive needs courage and strength.
          
          You aren't ridiculous for overthinking. It's just that your mind goes into defense mode because it senses danger. A positive mindset requires a lot of strength. Negative thoughts make it difficult for your brain to move towards positivity because it takes effort and time. You don't become positive all at once. It takes time and patience.
          
          The more you keep putting yourself down mentally, the weaker you become physically. Remember that. Your mental health is connected to your physical health. When people disappoint you, treat you harshly, or do anything that frustrates you, you automatically start putting yourself down mentally. Your energy gets drained. Even though you expected the situation because of your overthinking, when you actually face it, everything feels different and much harder.
          
          I'm not saying that you are weak or overly sensitive for reacting this way every time. No, it's natural and normal to feel like this. But protect yourself from getting too emotionally damaged because, in the end, you are the one who suffers.
          
          Hold yourself together, piece by piece, even if there are still people out there blaming you for no reason. I know it's difficult.  Every effort you make is more than the bare minimum if you have been through so much and are still moving forward.
          
          You are a brave person for not losing hope. Maybe you don't realize it, but you are doing more than enough. Try to see yourself in a positive way. You spend a lot of time overthinking negative things, but also remember this—you haven't given up. Just think about everything that has happened, and yet you are still trying your best.

also like lwk gagged at ur covers they're so GOODD

wait ava I miss u 

seeing women hate on alexandra leclerc for no reason is seriously giving internalised misogyny. it’s SO weird 

A blank mind is the heaviest to carry because it's filled with thoughts that don't know their way out. It blocks the thoughts that could help you understand the hurricane happening inside you. A blank mind has many kinds of thoughts. At one moment, you feel like you can pour them all out, but then you suddenly wonder what is actually happening to you. You become a puzzle to yourself. The more you try to overcome it, the stronger that negative pull becomes. You overthink everything and start assuming what will happen next. 
          
          People often think having a blank mind means there is nothing to think about. In reality, it can happen because your mind is carrying too much. Sometimes you have so many thoughts, emotions, and worries that your brain becomes exhausted. Instead of thinking clearly, it simply goes blank.
          
          Have you ever been asked a simple question, but suddenly you couldn't remember the answer? Have you ever wanted to explain how you felt, but no words came out? Have you ever stared at a book, a phone, or a wall for minutes without knowing what you were thinking? That is what a blank mind can feel like.
          Many people blame themselves when this happens.
          
          Just like your body becomes tired after working all day, your mind also becomes tired after carrying stress, overthinking, fear, sadness, or pressure for a long time.
          
          A blank mind does not mean you are weak or unintelligent. It does not mean you have nothing to offer. It simply means your mind has been carrying more than it could handle.
          
          The mistake many people make is becoming angry with themselves. They force themselves to think harder, work harder, or ignore what they are feeling. But a tired mind does not become stronger by being punished. It becomes stronger when it is understood.
          
          You do not have to solve every problem today. Remember, having a blank mind is not your identity. It is only a moment, not your whole life. Be patient with yourself. Even the busiest sky becomes clear after the storm passes.