It is okay to say no to someone. It is okay to move away from toxic people in your life- both physically, and mentally. It is okay to set boundaries. It is okay to put yourself first. It is okay to love yourself. In fact, in order for your love for anything else to be pure, you must first be able to love yourself truly and completely. This is the key to happiness <3 I can attest to this personally based on my experiences <3