It's ok now I asked her to delete it and she's doing her best I told we'll pretend this never happened, and she said ok she'll delete the messages, she did sound kinda pissed when I told her off about it, when she said sorry it was like she was pissed, but anyways I scared her a little bit after she got a bit bitchy with Me, and I told her to deter the messages which she is doing now and I'll delete mine.. So I think problem solved lol!