peelbackyourskin
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what the fuck??? i just lost a shit ton of friends bcuz my ex was telling people shit. all i fucking said was i felt used and manipulated and now people are saying im "milking the situation" and that only he was "manipulated, deceived and heartbroken." im sorry what? he broke up with me cuz i was feeling ill and i was a little distant for the last few days. he literally said that he's not feeling much comfort for the last few days. bro. FEW DAYS. HUH???? we couldve talked it out??? and maybe you could not treat me like a trophy wife?? also mind you he's 2 years younger than me and i dumbed myself down to be with him. i shouldnt have been associating with people younger than me and that was a mistake on my behalf. and the manipulation that i apparently did was not be available and perfect enough. bro. i have shit going on in my life that i need to tend to rather than make sure youre always happy. i had to %100 while he could be %40 and get away with that shit. also i told my mum about this and she said "well he comes from a difficult background. his dad is super overbearing and his mum is a narcisist." yeah but that isnt an excuse to be horrible. my ex literally said "mental health isnt an excuse" when i was telling him why i had been distant. okay 1 it IS a valid reason in that case and 2 you cannot say SHIT buckarino. you've literally done the exact same thing.
anyway thanks for listening to my rant i needed to get this off my chest. only 1 person i was talking to about this actually cared about me and believed me. the rest told me they cant be friends with me anymore or called me pathetic and an abuser.
