I have no problem if someone wants to talk to me about their problems, and wants my help, even if it's just an small portion of good advice. But, what I really hate is when they talk to you, and you tell them, "what can I help you with?" And they reply with, "with what I'm going through, you can't help me. You don't even know what I'm going through, I thought I could talk to you." Well, it would be more useful if someone talked to me about what they're going through, so I can have a better understanding on how to help them instead of them leading me on like that. I have learned, that if someone tells you they want your help, but doesn't tell you what's wrong and tells you that they thought they could speak to you, just move on and focus on yourself.