i am a believer in loving yourself. at one point in time i couldn't even look in the mirror because i didn't like what i saw. writing became a passion for me because i could be anything i wanted. overtime i learned to do that in real life, i learned to love myself through my writing. so my advice is to find your passion. wether it is: writing, singing, dancing or drawing. learn to love yourself because you are you no matter what anyone says. so live laugh and love yourself.