shahnum2011

Hey guys sorry I haven't been posting new chapters it's just that I'm unwell and also school is giving me some homework and tasks to do which takes up my time of being here in wattpad...I hope you guys understand and maybe id post a few chapters today or tomorrow?? Anyway I hope you have a fabulous day!

shahnum2011

Hey guys sorry I haven't been posting new chapters it's just that I'm unwell and also school is giving me some homework and tasks to do which takes up my time of being here in wattpad...I hope you guys understand and maybe id post a few chapters today or tomorrow?? Anyway I hope you have a fabulous day!

GentleNotes

You often feel scared about sharing your feelings or talking about the things you’ve gone through or are still going through. Why? It’s because of your age. These thoughts keep running in your head, and it becomes frustrating. You already have so much going on, and this fear adds to your overthinking.
          
          You want to open up about the stress and anxiety you’re feeling—it’s weighing heavily on you. You want to let it all out, but at the same time, you’re afraid of the criticism you might face from others, even those close to you. They may not have said anything directly, but their words and behavior make you feel like they’ll judge you if you share. You imagine them saying things like:
          
          "That's it? You’re just overthinking."
          
          "There’s nothing wrong with you."
          
          "You’re too young to feel that way."
          
          "You don’t know what real problems are."
          
          "You’re making this up in your head."
          
          "Stop stressing over nothing."
          
          "You don’t know the meaning of struggle."
          
          "Wait until you’re older; then you’ll understand."
          
          These words, even if unsaid, haunt you. You’re scared they’ll make fun of your feelings, dismiss your struggles, or act like you have no right to feel this way because of your age.
          
          But let me tell you something: these people don’t understand what real struggles are. They don’t realize that hardships aren’t about age—they’re about what people go through and how they cope. Yes, life brings challenges at different stages, but dismissing someone’s feelings just because they’re young is wrong. Everyone deserves to be heard. Sometimes, all someone needs to hear is, “It’s okay to feel this way.”
          
          Don’t waste your energy on people who make you doubt yourself or worsen your feelings.
          
          I don’t know what you’ve gone through or are going through now. I don’t know you personally. But I want to tell you this: don’t let the negative words of others drag you down. Focus on protecting your energy and finding people who understand and care.

shahnum2011

@GentleNotes thank you so much god bless you
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Madhusudana_

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shahnum2011

@Madhusudana_ you look scary (⁠ʘ⁠ᴗ⁠ʘ) no offence tho thats just my opinion ༎ຶ⁠‿⁠༎ຶ
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sashaisagod

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sashaisagod

@shahnum2011 okay then vote on the power of words will do the same for urs
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shahnum2011

@sashaisagod sure I would love that :)
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GentleNotes

Hi, I hope you’re doing well!
          I wanted to tell you that I won’t be posting messages on boards anymore. It takes too much time to post on everyone’s boards. Instead, I’ll share my thoughts in my book, ‘GENTLE NOTES,’ which I’ve already published. In the book, I can write more and share my thoughts in detail. Boards don’t let us write much because of the word limit, so the book is a better place for me to share.If you want, you can add the book to your library, but it’s completely up to you. I don’t care about votes or views,what matters is that my messages bring some positivity to your day.Take care of yourself!
          
          -Naaz

shahnum2011

@GentleNotes Thank you for the info and I will check out your book soon!
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GentleNotes

We often stress over everything, whether it has already happened or is about to happen. But we forget that taking too much stress won't make things go the way we want. For example, if you have exams, you might start stressing about small things, like where to start, how many days it will take to complete your syllabus, or comparing yourself to others who might be doing better. Before you even begin, you've already assumed you'll fail.
          
          Think about it,your syllabus is right in front of you. No one has taken your books away, and no one has told you to stress. It's completely up to you. Your performance will depend on how well you prepare. Stressing won't help; in fact, it will make things worse. You're making things harder for yourself and adding more problems to the ones you haven't solved yet.
          
          It's normal to feel worried about exams because you want to do well for yourself. Your parents may also have expectations, and you don't want to disappoint them. This adds to your stress. Instead of focusing on doing your best, you keep worrying about letting them down.
          
          But stressing too much is not helpful-it's harmful. It affects your mental health, stops you from being productive, and damages your confidence, which you worked so hard to build.
          
          Take a moment to think. Be wise, stay productive, and focus on doing your best. Don't let other people's high expectations overwhelm you. Work hard, but don't burden yourself unnecessarily. Growth comes from effort, not from worrying about things that won't happen if you stay focused.
          
          You are jumping to conclusions even before trying or doing anything. If you want good results, you need to focus on the process first. Instead of wasting all your energy stressing about the result, use that energy to do better in the process. Only when you focus on the process will the result improve.
          
          -Naaz 

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