soulful_sojourner

on a hiatus again yep 
          	this time.. i have major update and confession to make.. 
          	
          	my whole life i thought i can only be legitimate   if i wrote a novel or painted human faces or nature..
          	
          	but now i see how much i been rejecting what i alredy had for.. chasing my dreams.
          	
          	my dreams hobbies and preferences took birth from my feels of missing out sadly.. 
          	its sad cause like i relly felt like i progressed in art last yr and now.. 
          	
          	ok so what was i rejecting ? the big question ye 
          	
          	-spontaneous singing new song made in the rng moment based on topics i been dwelling on 
          	
          	- concepts algorithm from opposites , similarities differences 
          	
          	-hearing aspect and automatic thoughts 
          	
          	this also means ill be leaving reading as it reminds me of ‘its not enough i need more im missing out ‘ 
          	
          	my new plan will be reading if a book (in my deleting list ) catches my interest then and there and write on it 
          	
          	ill be however doing my wips for ossum author legends which i took up before yeah <3

soulful_sojourner

@MJKristo11 <3 thanks sis ;-; 
          	  keeping ya in prayers tc <3
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awhisperofgold

THE QUIET ARCHITECTURE OF A BETTER LIFE
          
          PILLAR 4 — SAFEGUARDING YOUR FOCUS AND ENERGY
          
          Many fall into the habit of doomscrolling, telling themselves “just one more video” or “one more piece of gossip,” only to realise that time has quietly slipped away. What begins as a moment of rest turns into mental exhaustion, leaving the mind clouded and unsettled. 
          Choosing no doomscrolling is a conscious decision to take back control of one’s time and attention. It begins with becoming mindful of where attention is placed and gently directing it toward what truly adds value. As distractions are reduced, the mind begins to settle, creating space for clarity and presence.It is never too late to start hobbies, and there is no limit to the number of interests one can have. Engaging in what you love brings a sense of joy and fulfillment, keeping the mind active and the heart content. These activities create balance in daily life and offer a healthy alternative to constant scrolling, gently pulling attention toward creativity and real engagement.
          Within this space, the mind becomes calmer and more focused.
          
          MT

awhisperofgold

THE QUIET ARCHITECTURE OF A BETTER LIFE
          
          PILLAR 3 — FORMING THE FRAMEWORK OF DAILY DISCIPLINE
          
          Once lessons from the past have been understood, the next step is to translate them into steady action. Many people rely only on distant ambitions, yet intentions that remain as goals are easily postponed, drifting into tomorrow and then another tomorrow. What truly shapes a life are the quiet patterns repeated each day. This is why it becomes wiser to build habits, not goals, allowing meaningful actions to become part of a daily rhythm rather than occasional effort. When something is practiced consistently, it gradually feels natural instead of burdensome, guiding progress even when motivation fades. At the same time, this process calls for patience and gentleness with oneself. Consistency grows best when we remain compassionate with our own pace. Continuing with sincerity rather than harsh self-judgment strengthens progress. It also invites a quiet awareness of time itself. When actions are endlessly delayed for “tomorrow,” we forget that tomorrow is never guaranteed. By choosing to act today, even in the smallest ways, we honor the present moment and strengthen the structure of a life lived with intention and care.
          
          MT

soulful_sojourner

on a hiatus again yep 
          this time.. i have major update and confession to make.. 
          
          my whole life i thought i can only be legitimate   if i wrote a novel or painted human faces or nature..
          
          but now i see how much i been rejecting what i alredy had for.. chasing my dreams.
          
          my dreams hobbies and preferences took birth from my feels of missing out sadly.. 
          its sad cause like i relly felt like i progressed in art last yr and now.. 
          
          ok so what was i rejecting ? the big question ye 
          
          -spontaneous singing new song made in the rng moment based on topics i been dwelling on 
          
          - concepts algorithm from opposites , similarities differences 
          
          -hearing aspect and automatic thoughts 
          
          this also means ill be leaving reading as it reminds me of ‘its not enough i need more im missing out ‘ 
          
          my new plan will be reading if a book (in my deleting list ) catches my interest then and there and write on it 
          
          ill be however doing my wips for ossum author legends which i took up before yeah <3

soulful_sojourner

@MJKristo11 <3 thanks sis ;-; 
            keeping ya in prayers tc <3
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awhisperofgold

THE QUITE ARCHITECTURE OF A BETTER LIFE 
          
          PILLAR 2 — DISTILLING EXPERIENCE INTO WISDOM
          
          With the slate cleared, the next step is to turn your past experiences into lessons, allowing each encounter whether joyful or challenging, to guide the road ahead. Every triumph offers insight into what brings fulfillment, and every hardship carries wisdom that, when acknowledged, strengthens resilience and understanding. It is natural to make mistakes along the way; errors are part of the human journey and should be met with patience and reflection, not harsh judgment. By embracing both successes and missteps, one learns not to be disheartened by what has gone wrong, but to carry those lessons forward, shaping choices with clarity and confidence. This practice encourages openness: to face each new situation with awareness, embrace opportunities without hesitation. In this way, every memory and every experience becomes a building block carefully integrated into the architecture of a life lived thoughtfully, each lesson fortifying the path toward growth, purpose, and courage.
          
          _MT

UnravelAsha

i miss you *thousand crying emojis* am studying and thinking of you :((

soulful_sojourner

@UnravelAsha <3 
            *fistbump*
            i too am tryna accept the limits of present yee- ;-; a wip duel
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