strngby
Love, war, and sabotage.
Dear reader,
I appreciate Wattpad Team consultor taking the time flagging- marking my stories. Between the first time I wrote a sexual scene to today, I have learned a lot through personal experiences and readings for mature audiences. I will write and publish more if I hear from any writer I seek to translate. Or if I receive a well-deserved amount of stars. I hope from the bottom of my heart this does not affect in any way the reasoning behind the selection of stories I published, evolving and stemming from a very young public –mature enough, or edited to avoid creeps. A love story that when I was young was always flagged as wrong or unhealthy for the youth. I worry of an story when the decor is not impeccable. Guys, people are just stoned lol.
Let a boy thrive on recognition too.
Love, Strngby
Since Dec 31st, 2025 to Jan 25th, 2026
P.S. This whole thing makes me feel bad not because of being unaware of doing so, but because of the shame of not writing as much as I would like, but I kind of don't with the fact that I enjoy or take willing part in writing when there's nothing physically stopping me from being on here. I would love to read your comments.
strngby
The normalisation of making super explicit stories towards strangers online (“it’s all over the screen”, “I shag off to your followers”, “I bet you bounce on it severely”—YES, these are all real examples I’ve seen; kids getting exposed to smut in spaces that should be safe for them it's not suggesting stigmatising sex, because that’s also bad; I’m just suggesting that if I stop giving it so much attention and devote more of our time, to our art, and to our brainspace tours to other things, we can learn to behave as our enthusiastic adults ourselves. Absolutely requiring the involvement of a fried second person's brain kind of baffles me. Again, there are no real benefits to not doing so and even negative effects, and a LOT of benefits to doing so. Read Kink of Success.
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strngby
I don't have any particular desire that I had when I was young, it's more like intrusive thoughts for me whenever my mind goes towards anything sexual. I used to have sex to help my insomnia, but it has gotten really, really bad in recent years and it doesn't help anymore. I like to say I'm not a puritan because I'm not forcing or pushing others to change because I don't agree/am uncomfortable with them or something they do as long as they are also okay with me not writing said something, but the fact that I may be silently uncomfortable with it alone makes me feel evil regardless if other people know or not. It's the most important love. These days it feels like every word in the dictionary has a secret sex meaning. You can’t “come” anywhere, or “get” anything, or “do” something, or “finish” a task, you can’t eat or play or perform, god forbid you say the word “touch”… When even the simplest, most commonplace words have been co-opted as innuendos (on purpose or otherwise), I think to have some kind of pushback movement against the modern flairesitos it’s really annoying, at worst it’s causing serious problems. Read Every character is Kim Jong In.
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strngby
I want to clarify some points of my sexual orientation. I identify as ace within the LGBTQA+ gated community in my country, and my pronouns are he/him, he/they (which are actually the same, as a cis male, part of this because in general I frequently get urges to do things I don't even want to do). I took some psych classes in hs and college, so I know from what I understand from that, not that humans love in some form or another either as young or when puberty hits. It’s more common among females to write about it before puberty than males. Read PQSAM. Like Franco... I have a lot of love to give, even if it isn't sexual. And to those looking for romance, it makes it sound like they keep messing up until they find "the one" that sounds miserable. So I may not believe in "true love" but I believe in the sting of love in general and in love in first doght, and that there isn't a superior type of relationship. I do crave physical intimacy (like cuddling and all) and sex sounds. I feel attracted to people but not close to me, I have an avoidant attachment style so that also factors in I suppose. I mostly never liked the guys that liked me but even if I did, I lost interest in them therein they had to ask me out. I feel like I understand being horny, but I don't understand wanting to naughty oneself from that.
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