a little rant because i see this on Tiktok especially with people whos been through ab#se that traumatized them: so i was scrolling on Tiktok and this one girl who went through horrible ab#se was talking about a new video she posted, and so many people were saying "she's dragging it" "she won her case she needs to stop dragging it" and that honestly made me irritated, as someone who goes through ab#se and has literally been ab#sed my life, i've been through SA, physical ab#se, mental ab#se, emotional ab#se, and still gets ab#sed i'm going to talk about it why?? because I can and because that stuff traumatized me, and it makes me do things a whole lot different because of it, and me sharing my stories when i do decide to share them can help other people, and what also frustrates me is i feel like you mostly see that with women creators and or feminine presenting people
(i might delete this later i don't know yet)
