theconfusedsoul25

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 #ranting 10th May, 2026
          	
          	Happy Mother's Day to all the lovely ladies.
          	
          	Today, I realised a thing and I want to share it with everyone here. 
          	
          	I don't think people read stories from their heart when they say they do genuine reads. I'm not simply talking my stories. Overall.
          	
          	The kind of comments I see on most people's stories are simply a way to suck up to the authors, so they return the favor. I've not seen people being unfiltered and unhinged in their feedbacks in any story I've read so far. 
          	
          	And because I'm very brutally honest with my feelings while reading, people get curious about my personality. I mean, I've struggled my entire life with these kinds of social cues and I've never succeeded in saying things just for the sake of making people comfortable.
          	
          	I can't suck up to people, and that's a huge reason why I have my own business. I couldn't survive corporate. 
          	
          	If you know me personally or ever had a long conversation with me, you'll know I'm not rude because I'm bad. I'm just unfiltered with my honesty and transparency. I talk to people from a very neutral and calm POV but since I can't force niceness in my words or tone, people immediately assumed I've a problem.
          	
          	I just have ADHD. 
          	
          	I never judge and people who talk to me feel safe enough to talk about the most disgusting, gore, freaky, twisted and messed up things without being judged. Strangers even tend to cry around me when they start opening up and feel safe.
          	
          	I know what I am and don't look for validation from anyone. That's the only reason why people think I'm rude, arrogant... even triggered. I'm not. 
          	
          	I have an ADHD brain and I'm an exroverted person. So when I speak or comment, I express in volumes, enough context for people to understand my POV. That doesn't make me triggered. That makes me very transparent.
          	
          	Have you ever faced such a thing? 
          	You just chilling and expressing yourself and some random person bashing you for whatever reason they think is valid for their thoughts?

theconfusedsoul25

@BadassPlant You can do your worst on my stories please. I'm like dying to get some strict criticism on my work.
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BadassPlant

@theconfusedsoul25 Thank you for your msg. When we say we need support, that doesn't mean half-hearted truths, and fake criticsm nobody cares about. When we say we need support, we want your worst. Like, hate comments, everything.
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theconfusedsoul25

@theHypotheticalShit Do your worst. Give me the criticism. As long as you keep reading, I don't mind the hate engagement. I get sad when people ragequit in he middle of the story and don't come back. I always appreciate people genuinely enjoying my story and hating on characters like they're real humans. I love that. XD
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Rockythepiratequeen

Hi there, Would you like to follow for follow?

theconfusedsoul25

@Rockythepiratequeen You can start "The Shameless Heiress"
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Rockythepiratequeen

@theconfusedsoul25 Sure! Which one of your books do you reccomend?
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Rockythepiratequeen

@theconfusedsoul25 which one of your books would you reccomend?
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theconfusedsoul25

this message may be offensive 
 #ranting 10th May, 2026
          
          Happy Mother's Day to all the lovely ladies.
          
          Today, I realised a thing and I want to share it with everyone here. 
          
          I don't think people read stories from their heart when they say they do genuine reads. I'm not simply talking my stories. Overall.
          
          The kind of comments I see on most people's stories are simply a way to suck up to the authors, so they return the favor. I've not seen people being unfiltered and unhinged in their feedbacks in any story I've read so far. 
          
          And because I'm very brutally honest with my feelings while reading, people get curious about my personality. I mean, I've struggled my entire life with these kinds of social cues and I've never succeeded in saying things just for the sake of making people comfortable.
          
          I can't suck up to people, and that's a huge reason why I have my own business. I couldn't survive corporate. 
          
          If you know me personally or ever had a long conversation with me, you'll know I'm not rude because I'm bad. I'm just unfiltered with my honesty and transparency. I talk to people from a very neutral and calm POV but since I can't force niceness in my words or tone, people immediately assumed I've a problem.
          
          I just have ADHD. 
          
          I never judge and people who talk to me feel safe enough to talk about the most disgusting, gore, freaky, twisted and messed up things without being judged. Strangers even tend to cry around me when they start opening up and feel safe.
          
          I know what I am and don't look for validation from anyone. That's the only reason why people think I'm rude, arrogant... even triggered. I'm not. 
          
          I have an ADHD brain and I'm an exroverted person. So when I speak or comment, I express in volumes, enough context for people to understand my POV. That doesn't make me triggered. That makes me very transparent.
          
          Have you ever faced such a thing? 
          You just chilling and expressing yourself and some random person bashing you for whatever reason they think is valid for their thoughts?

theconfusedsoul25

@BadassPlant You can do your worst on my stories please. I'm like dying to get some strict criticism on my work.
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BadassPlant

@theconfusedsoul25 Thank you for your msg. When we say we need support, that doesn't mean half-hearted truths, and fake criticsm nobody cares about. When we say we need support, we want your worst. Like, hate comments, everything.
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theconfusedsoul25

@theHypotheticalShit Do your worst. Give me the criticism. As long as you keep reading, I don't mind the hate engagement. I get sad when people ragequit in he middle of the story and don't come back. I always appreciate people genuinely enjoying my story and hating on characters like they're real humans. I love that. XD
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lavender_soul_author

Heyy dear
          
          Sorry but I'll start voting from 21st or 23rd May sorry but I have some my personal reasons...!!
          Take care bye

theconfusedsoul25

@lavender_soul_author It's okay. Take care babygirl.
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theconfusedsoul25

@breannabennett301bcb Thank you so much.
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theHypotheticalShit

Hii.. will you read my story?
          I just want honest reviews. I can tolerate criticism.

theconfusedsoul25

@theHypotheticalShit Hey, thanks for starting Professionally His. I have added your story to my list and will start reading ASAP (probably tonight or tomorrow since it's weekend).
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theHypotheticalShit

@theHypotheticalShit sure. No worry. Which book?
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theconfusedsoul25

@theHypotheticalShit Let me ask you the same. Will YOU read my story and give hoenst reviews?
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breannabennett301bcb

If it is fine with you, I will read/comment about three chapters a day due to fanfic writing:) Nice story so far!

breannabennett301bcb

@theconfusedsoul25 it's good! I like your writing and long structure.
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theconfusedsoul25

@breannabennett301bcb I guess I will try once again before the weekend ends.
            
            How's my story?
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theconfusedsoul25

@breannabennett301bcb If I'm being honest (the real honesty), I didn't understand most of it. First of all, I didn't even know what genderbent meant. I had to Google it and then the chemistry between the characters seemed too... off. Maybe it's because I don't understand anime cultures. 
            
            But you're writing style and pacing is really good. Good job with the plot (the POG and stuff) I loved that!
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