whodoesntlikesoda

Besties, thank you so much for your kind words. I really appreciate every one of you. I never imagined a day would come when advice from strangers could mean this much. Things feel heavy right now, but I know better days will come eventually. xoxo

whodoesntlikesoda

@kris10LO yeah it would’ve been nice to chat over coffee. Right now I’m just so lost picking uo the pieces. Im trying so hard. Keeping this all to myself at night. And cry. Thank you
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ormlingk

@whodoesntlikesoda hope everything will work out for you, things happens for a reason. ❤️❤️
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auntieRoxieee

I hope you're feeling good now author, if not, healthy at least. I only read about your recent heartache this morning, I know the pain of betrayal hurts more than the word hurt itself, but cheaters don't deserve a shed of your tear. Cry if you must, but not for them, cry to grieve the time of your life you've spent with them, cry to release the stress. The more you try to feel the pain the easier it gets to heals, this is me speaking from experience hehe. Again, i hope you're doing good. 

whodoesntlikesoda

Besties, thank you so much for your kind words. I really appreciate every one of you. I never imagined a day would come when advice from strangers could mean this much. Things feel heavy right now, but I know better days will come eventually. xoxo

whodoesntlikesoda

@kris10LO yeah it would’ve been nice to chat over coffee. Right now I’m just so lost picking uo the pieces. Im trying so hard. Keeping this all to myself at night. And cry. Thank you
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ormlingk

@whodoesntlikesoda hope everything will work out for you, things happens for a reason. ❤️❤️
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kris10LO

Ohh Author, that’s a lot to carry. Betrayal, heartache and the weight of secret identity. Give yourself some space. You’re allowed to feel all sorts of emotion. Cry it out, if things feel too heavy. But don’t rush to get over it. Or you can write it out. Transfer all your thoughts thru writing. Pour your heartache, the things you wanted to say or you the ones that got stuck in your throat.  Just don’t ever blame yourself. We’re here willing to listen. We may not personally know each other but i feel like, i’ve gained a few friends here. We are not here to judge but we love to listen. 

mysterxousmagus

@whodoesntlikesoda we’re praying for that as well and we’re rooting for you. Just take it easy on yourself, okay?
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whodoesntlikesoda

@mysterxousmagus thank you. I really do appreciate your kind words you guys. It was just too heavy and i dont have an outlet. To vent out and all given my situation. But i always pray i overcome this sooner. 
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whodoesntlikesoda

What do you do from a bad break up when you got cheated twice and ur not out with your family and friends. :3 fml

Lenchips

@whodoesntlikesoda honestly it sucks but I find counselling very helpful. Dont get me wrong it took me 2 years to finally try but it does help rationalise. It hurts because you care no shame in that. She waa with yiu for 5 years. Either emotionally, physically or logically something is not letting go yet and thats okay becuase it hasnt been long. If your not ready yet youre not ready to go past the grief stage. You cant blame yourself even if you understand the other side. Thats like saying I understand she cheated because she knew I was celibate and she wanted sex. You cant take responsibility for someone elses actions. 
            Feeling bad, then good then to nothing and not knowing are just what you have to go through but that will pass.  If it makes you feel better I was just bawling my eyes out after having a good afternoon. Just gotta let yourself feel and then try to live for yourself first
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whodoesntlikesoda

@Lenchips it’s okay bestie. I needed that. I never knew id hit rock bottom. It’s been over a month i cant barely sleep eat and almost every night i cry. I went on vacation but it always drifts back to heart ache. Like i think im gonna lose my sanity. Part of me still wants to fix everything. Forgive her. Part of me doesnt want to any more. I know I’m not ready yet although i want to be, for her. But i get her side. I really do. Thats why i somehow blame myself for things that happened. I dont know what im doing or what to do anymore. I want to be better trying to keep myself busy. But there will be times im back at that feeling again. 
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Lenchips

@whodoesntlikesoda thanks bestie! It was a rough few years before i finally realised its better to leave. Honestly this fandom and even your earlier stories on ao3 really helped me as a distraction. You just need to find something for yourself to think about when it feels like its too much to bring yourself back. If you ever need to talk im all ears for ya. 
            Not having closure can mess with you but at the same time sometimes you just need to leave it be. It may sound harsh but no use crying over spilt milk. You can think of all the what ifs or what happeneds and any combination of it but no one will truly know and it esp is not worth your energy over someone that couldnt even give a courtesy of saying we should part ways. You may have even dodged a bullet yourself if this is how she acts over something like this. Sorry I started rambling lol. Moral is, everyday gets better. 0.001% better a day is still something.
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Fasky9011

Hi Author, I just want to know if you have finished writing Mrs. & Mrs. and currently uploaded it by chapter, or if it's still ongoing?

Fasky9011

@whodoesntlikesoda thank you for replying Author, waiting for it to finish...no rush tho
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AsalEtemadi

Hello 
          
          I’m a big fan of your work and have really enjoyed your stories. I would like to ask for your permission to translate your novel into Persian and share it on a channel dedicated to LingOrm fans.
          
          I want to emphasize that the translation will fully preserve the original text, and I have no intention of making any changes to the story. My goal is simply to allow Persian-speaking fans to enjoy your work. Also, your name will be clearly credited as the original author of the story alongside the translation.
          
          I would greatly appreciate it if you could grant me permission and let me know of any conditions or guidelines you would like me to follow.
          
          Sincerely,
          [ASAL]

AsalEtemadi

@AsalEtemadi thank you for writing such beautiful fics When the novel’s fully uploaded, I’ll send you all the feedback 
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whodoesntlikesoda

@AsalEtemadi not really that uber active in twitter :3 here’s my twitter @whodsntlikesoda thaks btw for sharing the fic
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AsalEtemadi

@AsalEtemadi 
            Hi whodoesntlikesoda 
            I just wanted to let you know that we’ve started translating and uploading your fic Shotgun Wadding, and the feedback has been amazing!
            If you have the X app and would like to, please share your ID so I can send you our members’ comments and reactions once we finish the story ❤️‍
            
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kris10LO

Thanks for all you do bestie. I’m going to miss you and your stories. May you have a great and relaxing break. And when you come back, we’re always here to support you- with wide open arms. 
          Can’t wait for your next fic. Enjoy life! ☺️

whodoesntlikesoda

Thanks bestie. Im still gonna drop that last one before the break. Lmao work and university is killing me. But i like writing too. It helps my english :3
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