Self-help guide for teenagers

Introduction

Every story starts with an introduction. In this one, I will help adolescents to overcome this period of their life. So, a little bit about me before the real guide starts.

I live a small country in Europe: Hungary.  I am blind since I was born, because we were prematured babies with my twin brother. My brother has died when we were 8 days old. So my  family has been in a difficult situation and they had have to learn to live with that. 

It was a long and hard way for all of us to accept my disability. I have attended on many lessons to develop my mental health, and all parts of my body to "see" with them instead of my eyes. 

I have attended in a special school in Hungary during my first two years of elementary school.  When I was in class three, my parents decided to show me how the "sighted" environment works, so I have started to learn together with sighted children. From this point of my life I have begin to try out everything that have just been close to me. That was for example music, dancing, singing, and learning a foreign language. The World has been opened for me. 

I have had so many difficulties at the beginning of my way. When I have met my sighted classmates, I had have to realise that I am so different.  It was harder in my adolescent period, because I felt misunderstanding so strongly. But my friends and me have realised a fact soon: I like help others so much. When people had any issues, I have listened them willingly in the past as well. 

In a camp, a teacher has told me: "Please be a psychologist! Help others because , though you can not see others' face with your eyes, you can "see" with your heart and look behind things."

It has "touched" my soul deeply, so we have found my goal together. To tell you the truth, my special life situation has leaded me to this way. So from this happening, I have worked on preparing for this challenging, but beautifull way. 

They was not so easy towards this career as well. I was discriminated negativelly at university, teachers did not believe in me because off my disability. But, I have decided that I will help others if my teachers did not like it, too! So now, I am here as a psychologist and a lifecoach. And I am working with teenagers at school in Hungary, so I am doing now what I like. In addition, I am trying to show my mission for people all over the World. Now you know the key points from me, and you ask the question: What is the goal of this story. Read on below and you will find.