TEEN TALKS

STRICT PARENTS

I am Riri from India and I can't tell you my real name , now you will ask why???? BECAUSE.....
...... my parents don't know I have a Wattpad account !!! (Damn , that also to read BDSM sex and fanfics)...!!!

So , in case if any of my relatives find me here then I will meet you all in heaven or maybe hell bitches !!!

The chutiyas , chutiyappa public ( I mean relatives) are always after other's children....I will talk about these "chutiyas" in the next part.

well ,"chutiya" is a famous indian slang and I don't know exactly the translation in English , probably referred to a stupid fucker....if I am wrong then don't hesitate to correct me....

I am from a middle class family and I fear my parents as if they are DEATH EATERS , one angry stare from my mom and I will pee in my pants....

Those of you have strict parents will know my situation , mar mar ke ji Rahi hu Mae ( almost dying while living) ........ What are the most basic things you face with strict parents ?

First of all, you have ZERO PRIVACY
Privacy toh beta tu bhul ja ( forget your privacy my dear)..... Even if I laugh while seeing the phone they think I am sexting or talking with my boyfriend !!!

Once I said to my mom "amake eka chere dao na ......shob somoy Amar pechone asho keno " ( translation: please leave me alone for sometime...why do you always need to come after me )

Ok I am dead !after what I said I know I activated the missile but it was too late , my mom gave me a death stare and told "Amar pet theke beriye ,ei tu kuni Meyer eto eka thakte hoy keno ,beshi paka "( translation: being born out of my Womb , a little girl like you is telling me you want to be alone!)

I was 14-15 that time , well we all need sometime to be alone , accept it.....

Secondly , PHONE CHECKING .....if you have your personal phone and strict parents , then they will check your phone ...... previously my mom checked everything even though it was her phone, now, she is a little sympathetic towards me. I don't have my own phone everything I do is from the hidden folders from my mom's phone.... ain't I intelligent? Hahaha

Well ! Well ! teens like me also have tactics *smirks*
We either hide or delete temporarily most of the contents rather our "secret sins" when we sense danger ....... BAARE TEZ HOGAYE HO TUM BETA ( translation: you have become very cunning dear)

Thirdly , TIME & HANGOUTS

Hangouts with friends on every weekend ??? FORGET SWEETIE!!! if you really have strict parents then they won't allow you to go out alone , and if you're a girl then you may not be allowed to go out after the night falls , yes , this have a reason that is parents fear their child's safety and girls can't go out because of some fuckin niggas who harrass women , sadly in India it's very prominent.....

I was never allowed to hangout with my friends alone on weekends , still now , it's very rare maybe on some occasions I am allowed to go but I have to come back within the time which is allotted by my parents..

About time , I have to maintain a routine and if there is sometime of indiscipline in that then ...then......samajhlena (translation : understand yourself)

Fourthly, THAPAAD & CHAPPALS
jisko pata hae ye wo ab tak aapne "THAPAAD & CHAPPALS" memory Ko yaad karke trauma me chale Gaye
(Translation : those who know this thing they are already in a trauma after remembering their "THAPAAD & CHAPPALS" memory)

Well THAPAAD is the hindi word for slap & CHAPPAL means slippers in hindi.
If you call yourself a middle class indian teenager then without doubt you have experienced it even if once !!! Meri baat choro Mere liye ye common hae XD ( leave me , It's pretty common for me) *laughs*
I guess most of the kids and teens are immune to this , sometimes we loose salt water from our eyes after this "thapaad-chappal" experience...

Well , these are the pretty common things you experience if you have strict parents , at least I experienced all ! My parents supervise everything , now my mom shows a little sympathy but still strict ..... AND AND AND I FORGOT TO SAY !!!!! DON'T YOU HAVE SPECIAL NICKNAMES GIVEN BY YOUR PARENTS ????????? Being an Indian teen I can assure that at least once you have been called by some animal's name !!!!!
My mom called me "Bador"( monkey in Bengali) , and also "gadha"(donkey) ,she still calls me and trust me I like it hahahaha !! And I don't know why? Maybe I was Destined to be a monkey's child but I think I somehow came in a human form to my parents.!!

But you think they don't love you? Strict parents don't show much that they love you but actually in the WHOLE WORLD THEY LOVE THEIR CHILDREN THE MOST !! they don't want to show so that we don't cross the line, grow wings and fly with evil influence.....
maybe they can't give you the Gucci , jimichoo stuff or take you to the 5 star places , for instance I have never been to a 5 star hotel or purchased any branded products, we don't have our own personal car too for that many look down upon me , I see my friends going to shopping malls , Starbucks coffee & where not! But you know I am happy with my Rs.5 samosa and wearing the dress my mom bought from a local shop , the price or quality doesn't matter what matters is the love & even the most strict parent of the world loves their children the most.....