releveling pain

coming out

SO, last year 2020 I came out as Bisexual I know that your thinking. aren't I to young well not really trust me it's not a phase I have a crush on some girls and guys . But let me tell you the story so my mom was home and lying on her bed when I came in and sat next to her "mom I have something to tell you I've kept it in for some time and I want to tell you that I like girls and boys I know you may not love me but I can't help but feel that way" after that my mom excepted me but she thinks it's a phase she tells me that I just haven't met the perfect guy but trust me I thought I've meet him but it's not him than came my father you see my parents are divorced any my dad comes to pic up my sister on the weekend.  And he's how do i say this old fashion sexist and some what homophobic. when I came out to him he laughed and said what do you mean you like girls and boys it's just a phase come back to me when your older. that day I felt so awful I cried everyday. but I'm over it now and ok

so if you haven't came out the closet or told your parents have a talk with them or let them read this it will be in Spanish and English 

hello parent your child has something to tell you I don't know if you know about LGBTQ+ is LGBTQ is a community for the gay, lesbian and so much more I know maybe in the old times this wasn't right. And trust me your child is still the same person they are they just happen to like boys or girls or both they may even like everyone like trans man or women. I may not know you or you know me but I know one thing is that you should accept your child for who they are. You may be grossed out or not like it but your child can't help it they can't control there feelings or how they feel. it's something you have to accept it's your own child that your raised and grew to love. there still the same it may not be normal. But are you really gonna disown your child because of it?. have some sense into you you raised that child. you have all those wonderful memoires with them why disown your child and let those memories be forgotten or go to waste. Do you not see your child hurt or scared of how you would treat them or react. you too talk to your child about this. tell them how you feel  don't just yell at them or disown them they have feelings to and it will just ruin your relationship with your child.

Spanish version

hola padre tu hijo tiene algo que decirte No sé si sabes sobre LGBTQ + es LGBTQ es una comunidad para gays, lesbianas y mucho más. Sé que tal vez en los viejos tiempos esto no estaba bien.  Y créame, su hijo sigue siendo la misma persona que es, simplemente le gustan los niños o las niñas, o ambos, incluso puede que les gusten todos, como hombres o mujeres trans.Puede que no te conozca o que tú me conozcas, pero sé que una cosa es que debes reconocer a tu hijo por lo que es.  Puede que le sienta asco o que no le guste, pero su hijo no puede evitarlo, no puede controlar sus sentimientos o cómo se sienten.  es algo que tienes que hacer, aceptar que es tu propio hijo a quien criaste y llegaste a amar.todavía hay lo mismo, puede que no sea normal.  ¿Pero realmente vas a repudiar a tu hijo por eso?  tienes algo de sentido en ti, criaste a ese niño.  usted tiene todas esas memorias maravillosas con ellos por qué repudiar a su hijo y dejar que esos recuerdos se olviden o se desperdicien.  ¿No ve a su hijo herido o asustado de cómo lo trataría o reaccionaría?  usted también hable con su hijo sobre esto.  dígales cómo se siente, no se limite a gritarles o repudiarlos por los que tienen sentimientos y arruinará la relación con su hijo.

(A/n) if I made a mistake on the Spanish one please tell me I can talk Spanish but not right I suck I know. Anyways have a happy pride month guys 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ and stay safe.