Ranting About Love

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Hello my fellow other worlders. Today I've decided to post something very different from last weeks post. It's all based on thoughts. Yep, you heard that right. Today's topic is is going to be all about random ranting. It's time I get your brain's thinking, eh?🤔🤓

So, onwards to our task:

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You want to know one of this things I hate most in this world? It's labels.

Labels are used so much in this world that it's crazy, and we don't even notice it. Our lives have come to depend on labels to the point we don't know what to do without them. Also, it becomes the point at which we separate people into categories, but segregate those who would have similar beliefs or characteristics all for the sake of staring out. There's nothing wrong with being a little extra, but this segregation is what I thing escalates discrimination, and hate towards those who are deemed "different," instead of attempting to set escalate the situation.

Take the word love, for example. Love is.one word that is used to describe deep feelings of.affection towards another. It should just be that. Instead, we separate it into categories, where "love" becomes"are you gay, lesbian, or bisexual?" 

Yeah sure, in speaking out you're making a statement, but are you really being heard? If the goal of the LGBTQ+ movement is to encourage everyone to accept the fact that same-sex love is the same as heterosexual, then how is it possible to make it the norm when we're rationalizing the division of love it's. By doing this, you're telling others that your love is different; it's unusual, and makes you stand out in a bad light. 

Take celebrities for another example. What happens when parents hear the music of modern rappers, or catch a glance at what is considered to be a "teen" movie? What's their response? Usually it's to bane anything of the sort in their house because it is seen as disgraceful, and sinful, if your family's religious. But they also tend to gossip among their friends; downgrading other's efforts in favor of bringing light to their "sins." Thus, we have a scandalous situation; a situation so heaped in drama that the audience absorbs and spreads like a wet sponge.

It doesn't just become a scandal, it becomes "their different," which soon after leads to "they don't belong in this society because they aren't 'normal.'" Again, we've rationalized the segregation. The vast number of personalities that exist in this world are divided into "the norm," what "barely passes as normal," and what is so far out their it's been deemed as "wrong" in the eyes of society.

It's not that it's "wrong" to love.someone of the same sex. In fact, same-sex relationships have practically always existed. Humans always.tend to take step backwards though. Everyone does it.

Which is why I bring up another word I hate using in romantic, or sexual context. I mean sure, if you want to be clear on who your willing to sleep with the do that. But there shouldn't be any fear of outing yourself with dramatic labels. The idea behind the separation only encourages society to feel that the topic.is.out of the norm, but by not separating the definition of love into categories, we're.telling the rest of society that it is normal. It's all a matter of when "I'm gay," simply becomes "Is it a a man, or a woman?" When you tell someone that you're "in love," the response shouldn't be any different, or expectant than heterosexual love. It's.the same as saying "who is it?" Instead of the almost depreciating question of "are you gay?" If you want out yourself into the.open, then do, just don't let it hold you back. It's nobodies business but you're own who you're in a relationship in. Although, that's not to say you should.feel shame over your choice in partners, because you really shouldn't. It's all about the matter of what's important to you.

Love has no shame; so in return, it shouldn't be shamed. Love is always evolving. Like a sunset, it always changes, and like a sunrise it will always be the same.

I guess you can put self glove in there too☺ 

So love yourself guys, no matter what. An remember, there is no one else like you; you gorgeous beautiful you. 😊🤗😘

You know, life's always about the small things😋

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Catch you late alligators!

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