One Direction Preferences

The boys are human

This family is breaking. As I sit behind the screen of my phone and laptop, I see the bond crumbling. I dreaded seeing this day and I hoped it never came. I believe that this obsession we have with the boys is becoming to much not just for them but also us. It breaks our hearts to see the boys cry, angry,scared and in pain. Some days I feel like we are causing this suffering. Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely adore this fandom and the boys but I feel like our obsession with the boys is changing some of us too much. I agree that it is ok to go and see the boys, it’s ok to always tweet them, it’s ok to support them but turning against them on cheating rumours,questioning them daily, constantly following their every move to going home or to important and special family occasions. I feel like some of us have changed. How would we like it if we were followed, questioned, hated and threatened everyday? Doesn’t seem fun to me. The boys are still human. They need some private time in their busy lives. They need to be free of hate even for at least a day. I believe that we are also being to consumed in being noticed by the boys that we no longer stand by each other’s sides. Each family has disagreements but we spend to much time trying to get noticed than trying to support and save our brothers and sisters in this fandom.
I did not write this for people to change. I did not write this for hate. I did not write this from anger. I wrote this as a beg. Please let the boys have some privacy in their lives. Please support one another in this fandom. Please stay together. This fandom and the boys are my world, my reason of breathing but i feel like we breaking to much. I wish that we didn’t question the boys. I wish that the media would stop chasing the boys. I wish we could stay a strong family. I hate to see us breaking and I hate to see the boys breaking. I am sure others in this fandom do to. It’s time to make a difference. I am not saying that we change, I am simply saying to calm down a bit. Let the boys have some space, defend them against the media instead of being like them. Continue supporting the boys and fandom instead of pressurising them. Please. I beg of you…of us.

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