Girl Talk

Dark VS Light

You guys know I love Christopher Maurice Brown, but I have to admit, I do not like a lot of his choices. I'm not counting the Rihanna situation because she hit him first. Call me what you want, but oh well. They shouldn't have been fighting in the first place, but Godly! You can't just hit someone and expect them to act normal. But like I was saying, I don't condone the shit he does, especially if it's wrong. I am not that type of stan. But I will say that the women who accuse him of beating them never have proof. They say the shit and disappear, and I never understood that. When Chris said no darkies in his booth, that did rub me that wrong way because what the hell did the dark skin women ever do to you? And I've been a fan of Chris for years, and we all know this! But there are times when I just think about whether I want to continue to support him or not because of his comments about black women. Like, I don't get it. And the song we made with Lil Wayne and Joyner Lucas was a huge problem too. There was a lyric about f*cking a light skin girl with pretty hair. I don't know the verse word for word, but I know that's what it was about, and I did listen to the song. I hid the song off the album on Spotify and Apple because I didn't like the song. It wasn't even the verse; I just did not like the song. Then he tried backing it up by posting his song Brown Skin Girl, but that didn't help much. These guys are so comfortable having black women twerking in their videos but won't marry them. Make it make sense. Do I still support Chris Brown? Obviously. Will there be a day when I stop supporting my husband? I don't know. I just thought I should talk about Chris first since I'm a huge supporter.

Then we have other celebrities like DaBaby, T.I., Kodak Black, Cardi B, Queen Naija, Nicki Minaj, Charlamagne, Snoop Dog, Micheal Blackson, Tyrese, Boosie, Dani Leigh, Kevin Hart and a bunch of others. So I'm gonna make this short because I'm not making a whole essay on these people.

Dababy; Letting "yellow-bone" disrespect his baby mama, who is dark skin and condoning the behavior from Dani. He even put yellow emojis under the post where she posted the song.

Dani Leigh: Disrespecting Dababy's baby mama and putting out a song called "Yellow bone, that's what he wants". . .girl you thought you ate that? Then tried to be funny and try to uplift her "light skin queens." There ain't nothing wrong with that, but light skin women do not get the hate that dark skin women get. At this point, take her plate. THEN proceeds to get pregnant by Dababy. She got what she wanted, and now she is single. Stupid.

T.I.: T.I. is so quick to stand up for the light-skinned women, but when it comes to the dark skin women, he is suddenly Ray Charles. The same goes for Snoop.

Snoop Dogg: Cheats on his wife with a white woman.

Kodak Black: Says he doesn't want a dark skin baby but wants Zendayay to date him when Zendaya supports her black queens. Sit down! He's said so much more, but I said this is brief.

Cardi B: Called black women roaches and called the babies burnt.

Queen Naija: In a youtube video, she said, "I'm sorry y'all, but it seems like Lil nappy-headed girls would bully me," And we all know what she was talking about.

Nicki Minaj: Her recent comments towards black women this past week. She said black women were jealous of Jesy Nelson. Honey, first of all, Jesy is white, not mixed or black. Who's jealous? Then she got on the other black girl from Little Mix for no reason at all.

Charlamagne: Condoned Cardi B's behavior for drugging men and taking their money, but he hated it whenever a black girl would do something.

Micheal Blackson: Called his white girlfriend, his African queen.

Tyrese: Also called his bi-racial girlfriend an African queen and told black women to stop wearing weaves.

Boosie: . . .next

Kevin Hart: Left his black wife for a "McRib."

I don't know why these men hate black women so much, but it's definitely something within themselves. But it does not give them the right to disrespect black women for whatever reason. Now the girls are not off the hook either. Yeah, you thought you were safe? Don't date any white man and then turn around and bash black men. I know what they did, but let's be the bigger person. Don't go telling Brad that the last guy you were with was a porch monkey.

This whole light skin dark skin battle has to stop because, news flash, folks, we are both black, just different shades. Now, if they are bi-racial, they are not entirely black nor white. So, for example, Mariah Carey, Doja Cat, Pamala Harris, Barack Obama, Malcolm X, just to name a few, are not entirely black nor white. Ian gone get into all the races and regions of the universe they mixed with, but Google is a thing. At the end of the day, we all share the same color blood; stop the goddamn hate! Colorism affects black women and black girls. Some girls hate themselves because their skin color is hated by many. Especially by white women, but they always wanna be us. They want our lips, our butt, our style, and our traditions. There is nothing wrong with black skin. Black skin is beautiful and unique! Because without black people, white people would not exist, but we are not gonna get into that.

Black men always talk about never loving a black woman because we aren't their mom. Well, date your mom. Bye. We do not care. Now, it's one thing to have a type and a preference. For example, I have a type. I like brown, dark skin men. I like them nice, big, tall and fit. The kind that works out and weighs over 230lbs. I also like big, chubby guys. They are so warm and sweet. The facial hair, a beautiful smile, deep voice, and thick in the back make it better for me. Now that's a type. Men's type on the other hand, is complicated. They want a "bitch" who has a Nicki Minaj body, gotta be light skin with curly hair and hazel eyes, she has to have her own car, house, can't work a 9-5, gotta be willing to let him cheat, have to be 3'11, she gotta be hairless, and she can't have no odor coming out her vagina and no periods. Do you want a grown woman or a kid? I'm confused. Help me out. Help me understand. And why are you calling your girlfriend a bitch? The disrespect. Now I know it's not every guy. This is just an example of the "preferences" I've seen so far. Black is beautiful. Never forget it.

I'm still bumping that Queen Naija album, though--