Girl Talk

But You're Still Friends With Her

We're gonna call her Pale because when I pulled up on her to talk to her in person she was scared but when we all talked shit out at her house she talked all mess and lied on me and tried to talk stuff about me to my best friend like he wasn't gone tell. Just dumb, right? She started to act differently when we were planning my party and she had an ugly ass attitude. One day she just said she didn't care and I told her if you have a problem we can talk in person you know where I stay. Like what is up with you? I got tired and sent her voice messages in the chat and she never responded so the next day I went to her house and went off on her. She thought I came to fight but I did not. That was not my motive. But it turned into my motive when she acted dumb. Her mom eventually sat us down to chat but my mind was made up. Pale was not gonna be my friend again. She still hangs out with bitches who don't like her ass though. The same ones she complained to me about. I was a good friend to her cuz when I met her, she had no friends. Now her and her momma wanna be funny.

You have to watch who you allow to be your friends. She was jealous and spiteful anyways. Ever since that day, I stopped trynna make new friends and I went on with my life. Her mama knew she was shit starter and couldn't do anything without me. But she branched off and eventually got a job. Surprisingly. And I'm still mad about the whole thing too because she did me so wrong and chose the fake people over me. Them girls don't even like her, But get this though. My aunt hangs around our other part of the family a lot and Pale is over there because her fake friend is some kin to my one cousin. So when my aunt comes around, Pale doesn't stay for long. It's so funny to me too because she must've forgotten she was hanging around our family. Except for her friend, I don't give a damn about her. She doesn't like me cause I'm cousins with my cousin but I'm not buying that. Something else was said.

If you notice your friend's behavior has changed, let them go. If they say something weird, if they do something weird, if they are being weird, drop them. If you sense some jealousy, let them go. Any major red flags and the small red flags, let them go.

We used to do every single thing together and now look at us? Girls, never let a fishy situation carry on for so long. Soon the people around you will not care about her and it's gonna be hard to even invite her places and feel comfortable because no one cares for that person. A failing friendship cannot always be fixed and that's okay. The girls these days act weird as hell and have evil motives and hidden agendas. I've continued to be friends with certain people regardless of who they are and what they have. And this leads me to my next suspect, a girl named Grey. She had grey hair and she was delusional as hell. I also took this girl to my house and we were friends but she began to act funny. She would talk about me and all she did was gossip. I'm surprised she even graduated. The way she acted was so bad. She talked about me and Pale but Pale was still cool with her.

I know ya hear them stories about these friends setting their best friends up for failure and 9/10 it's a tragedy resulting in death or jail. Just like Kanesha Jenkins and the guy who went out with his white friends and he ended up missing then later found in the lake. There are so many more stories to point out and it's crazy. And what about that one event when a girl was at a sleepover with her so-called friends and they poured hot boiling water on her while she was asleep?

And Pale, if you are reading this or if someone told you to read it or if you got a screenshot, I just want you to know that I do not hate you, however, I hate what you did because you were wrong. You said you don't want to be friends again and I don't either but I just wanna let you know that the friends you are with are not your real ones. You may not care what I'm saying and you probably don't, but when you finally get to figure out the girls you've complained about to me, you'll have nobody. Please pick and choose wisely. With this being said, have whatever day you'd like. Thanks.

The only friends I do appreciate are Anthony, Nialah, and Tyleah. Anthony and I have been friends since 8th grade and me and Nialah since 9th. They are always there when I need them and they help me out a lot. The thing I applaud Nialah for doing is helping out with my birthday even though it went left, lol. But she stood by my side and not to mention she had watched all my tantrums and attacks. And Anthony has never seen my attacks in person, but he has heard my cries. Me and Anthony have the funniest moments when we're together-even if we are on the phone. We always find a way to make each other laugh. Me and Tyleah don't really talk much, but I tell you one thing, she gave the best advice ever and she has never experienced some of the things I went through. Tyleah is also different. She listens to things that I wouldn't even think of but she stays her lane and continues to do her, not caring about what others think. I'm not gonna get too deep about all of our friendships but they have really been helpful people.