Greatness and everything we hoped to ever be and has always been with in us. What really matters is how we treat and what we do with the greatness inside of us and whether or not we even choose to recognize the greatness. Took me years to except this fact and apply this to my life situations relationships and outcomes are a product of what you think of yourself and what you accept. these outcomes relationships and situation's are held in place by choice. Most of the time we forget the fact that we have free will so therefore by default have a choice and everything that goes on in our lives. The first choice is usually the best decision that one can make for them self. Seldom is a mind tempted to change when the mind is wrong. Only when one has opportunity to think of change has it made the correct choice.