After you have cleansed your own image you will be able to see yourself in a life like never before. There is great patience needed in order to take time to forgive yourself and change your perspective about yourself. In many ways the ideal place a huge role and how you perceive yourself. Your mind set must be in order. Are you setting your self standards if not why if so are you following those standards? Make those standards achievable and simple standards and goals very much like platforms you must set ones starting out where you are.