Dream SMP/Mcyt Boundaries

TommyInnit's Boundaries

• Stans/fancams/fan edits: In his streams, Tommy has said that he supports stan culture, but that it does overwhelm him a bit; he is fine with things such as stan accounts, fancams, and fan edits because he avoids them. He has also said multiple times that he is fine with stan culture; he just doesn’t want to see it.

• Shipping: Tommy’s most recent stance on shipping is him saying “I don’t think you should ship me and Tubbo” when talking about stans and shipping; as far as I can tell he probably disapproves of shipping going off this. There is a clip from further back where he says he ‘doesn’t care’ when asked about shipping in a donation, but we would like to use the most recent clips available. As well as this, he could have just been talking about stan culture in the earlier clip as he goes on to talk about stans.

• Names: Tommy has previously said he is not comfortable being called by his full real name. Since the creation of his vlog channel Tom Simons, he has started using his real name more publicly and indicated he is fine with fans calling him by it.

• NSFW: Tommy has confirmed that he is uncomfortable with NSFW; which should be expected considering he’s a minor.

• Posture jokes: Wilbur asked people on his former alt “ZoneWilbur” to stop making fun of Tommy’s posture*, so assume posture jokes should be avoided. However, because it’s only been indirectly implied by Wilbur and not stated by Tommy, this can be taken with a grain of salt.
*The ZoneWilbur account tweeted exclusively in emojis and would like replies that got the translation correct. It had replied to a tweet mocking Tommy’s posture with disapproving emojis and liked a reply translating it. The ZoneWilbur account is currently the official account of the band Lovejoy ft Wilbur.

• Being called a Jschlatt stan: Tommy has expressed discomfort with being called a Schlatt “stan”/“schlannie.”

• Profile pictures: Tommy has stated that profile pictures of his face do not bother him, but that he will not engage with them and he does not want fans to use them if they are being toxic. He has also expressed discomfort with certain popular photos of him wearing a VR headset.

• Cosplay: When asked by a fan whether they should do cosplay, Tommy said “if you want to, man, it’s up to you,” indicating he doesn’t mind cosplay.

• Appearance: Tommy has expressed discomfort with fans commenting on his hair.

• MotherInnit: Tommy has requested fans not to bother his mother after fans discovered her social medias. (Since the accounts are public and Tommy said his mother appreciated the nice messages fans sent her, we consider this more a matter of etiquette than a hard boundary.)

Evidence
about stan culture
about fancams
old clip about Tommy’s full name
a recent clip about his full name
about fan edits
this video on stan stuff and shipping (he says that he doesn’t want to be shipped at 1:20)
Tommy speaking out against NSFW of him
on being a “schlatt stan” - 31:32 - 32:16 of this vod
on profile pictures and VR headset photos: 4:21 - 4:27 of this video
don’t use him as your pfp if you’re being toxic
clip about cosplay
clip about fans commenting on hair
about his mother’s social media

[ID: A tweet by a fan reading “not funny, stop making fun of his posture.” It has been liked by the Lovejoy account, which used to be Wilbur’s alt twitter. End ID]