....this is the advice given by umamah bint al Harith to her daughter umm iyas bint awf on the night of her wedding among the advice she offered was the following
..."0'my daughter! You are about to leave the home In which u grew up where you first learned to walk..to go to place u do not know...to a companion with whom you are unfamiliar by marrying u..he has become master over you,so be like a servant to him and he will become like a servant to you ...
•never disclose any of his secrets and never disobey any of his orders for if u disclose any of his secrets you will never feel safe from his possible betrayal and if u disobey him his heart will be filled with hatred towards you...!!!
