HUMAN PSYCHOLOGY

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Be not afraid of discomfort. If you can't put yourself in a situation where you are uncomfortable, then you will never grow. You will never change. You'll never learn. -Jason Reynolds

Question 2 .Why we are uncomfortable with anyone ?
Answer- So I'm just taking an example if there are many situations where we must be uncomfortable in order to grow and learn. For example, if you want to become stronger, you must lift weights that are heavy. If you want to improve your writing skills, you should write more often rather than sit at home all day watching Netflix.

If, for example, we don't like someone - or we feel uncomfortable around them - we might convince ourselves that it's actually the other way round... That they don't like us.

By placing the blame onto the other person (e.g. "they're making me feel anxious"), we're relinquishing ourselves from taking any responsibility, helping us to feel better about ourselves in the short-term.

We're going to be especially susceptible to this type of projection if we already suffer with low self-esteem.

If you're sure you're not projecting and you truly believe someone is treating you badly... It's time to take action.

As much as we can blame the other person for making us feel anxious,

See many people and my friends also take judgement on text message and this is the worst thing i have ever seen because in text you can't see the confidence, you can't see the behaviour, and can't see the eye to eye contact talks .....So, never judge a person through text because some people are not aware of our thinking ,so give them time and i would prefer to you all to talk face to face which is best thing......If we are ranting on someone and still he is responding kind or giving you reply very politely then he/she have very patience.

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