PASTOR'S KID'S LIFE (PK Diary)

Honest Thoughts on Life as a Pastor's Kid

this article is by : SARAH WEBER

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1. Actions Affect More Than Yourself.

It appears to me everyone is born with the same “me-myself-and I” mentality. It is like we are the stars of our own show and everyone else are just extras.

Being a PK made it loud and clear this life is not to be lived selfishly.

When myself or my siblings would sneak into the baptismal pool, run around the church or play pranks on other church members, my dad would hear about it and would have to deal with our mishaps. Our actions affected him and my mother.

So even though we are all guilty of living selfishly, I learned when I only think about myself, the consequences tend to trickle out to other people in my life.

2. People Watch and Wait for Failure.

In high school I was really involved in our church’s youth group. Anytime there was a youth event I was there. More often than not, I’d help carpool students to events.

One day, in my sweet Ford Probe, I dropped a younger girl off at her house. Not two minutes later did I get a phone call from my dad asking me if I was smoking in my car.

Really? Me smoke? I’m 17 and at a youth event.

Turns out, I was eating an apple caramel lollipop when I had dropped the young girl off. The mom looked out the window and saw the white stick coming out of my mouth and assumed I was smoking and gave my dad a call.

I wasn’t angry at that mom. But many moments after that in my life taught me the world is watching us a Christians. And they wait and hope for the moments when we fail. 

As Christians we must live above reproach, because we never know who is watching us and how we may unintentionally harm the image of Christ. 

3. Christians Need Forgiveness.

My family went though some rough times when I was in junior high.

Like things that families should never be put through by other members of the church body.

I became familiar with church splits, angry deacons and other things at the tender ages of 11-13. Some of the things that happened to my family gave me (and all my siblings) a legitimate reason to hate the church and Christians.

But Christ is bigger than our sins.

Christ is bigger than church splits and rumors.

At a young age I learned the importance of forgiveness as I watched my parents walk through forgiving their transgressors.

As a church body we should always love each other. But when other Christians fail us or hurt us, we must choose to forgive.

I could list off many more lessons but for the sake of your time I’ll stop here.

Final thoughts for Pastors:

1. Be wise in your decisions because your children are watching you ever so closely.

2. Encourage your children with the Word.

3. Make time daily to pray with your children. My dad did this through the entire time I lived at home and that time together was priceless.