Personality

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Do not change your personality to one that you are not comfortable with.

Trying to be somebody else just doesn't work. It's exhausting and in the end it's not truly worth it. We all get so caught up in this idea of trying to be the perfect that we forget what's truly important. Your idea of being yourself will change (I mean, is anyone really the same person they were in the 3rd grade?) but as long as you're becoming comfortable with yourself it doesn't matter.

Your personality is what makes you truly beautiful, and as I said in the last chapter, you are always beautiful, as long as you show your inner self. The only thing I could ever even think about changing about somebody is if they are really mean to people. It's not right to be mean to people, especially if it's about who they are.

I know you are the best person you can be. Don't try to be somebody your not, because it doesn't work. You can only be who you are, and that's all anybody should ever ask of you. If somebody doesn't love you for you, then they aren't the right people you should be hanging out with. It's not worth being friends with somebody if you have to act like somebody your not.

No matter what, your personality is perfect to you. That's all that matters. Everybody's definition of perfect is different, so why change your personality to fit one persons definition when it's not going to be perfect to everybody? Especially when you can be the perfect definition of perfect to you. You will always be the best person you can be if you are being yourself.

Here's my definition of the word:

Perfection;
Noun
You when you are being yourself.

The only definition there should be. Just remember that everybody's definition is different, so your standards will be different then the persons next to you. But they're still perfect in their own way. Just like you.

Never change beautiful 😘💖💖
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