That Messy Room Called Brain.

Sweet Complicated 16.

-first of all, It's an updated version of the main article I wrote a year ago, so if you read the old version anywhere, please read this.
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Sweet 16, A famous phrase which almost all people are familier with. These are few letter that hold so many deep meanings within. If we can just take a minute and think about the whole thing, what's so amazing about growing up.. When we were children we were so excited about growing up, but here we are! It's just a trap. Okay all of us think that way, me included at some point, but if we could take another minute to think about it again, we'll find that it's a fact that cannot be ignored in any means.

Teens fill up with pleasure when they hear somebody tells them "sweet 16 honey", "you grew up" and of course they greet them back saying "Oh,thank you" and so on... But wait a minute.. Grew up? WHAT! We're not those children we used to be anymore, we sometimes can't go on in a conversation without getting misunderstood, we always have to prepare an excuse before we cry just to avoid saying what's wrong (okay, that's applied on girls only since guys don't cry,at least not often), we can't go and knock our mother's door and tell her "Please mom, hold on to me, I need by my side, It's too dim here without you", We CAN'T.. Because at the end of the day, and under all the surrounding circumstances.. We GREW up!

Okay, let's not take this too serious, let's ignore all the disadvantages of not being those same children we used to be and let's look at the bright side, Growing up is a part of life cycle which means that if you wanted it or not, it's not your choice (unless they invent time machines), but you have the choice either to lead a happy life full of adventures, love, friendship experiences and going through new challenges and experiments OR to just sit there, lamenting on your luck, (even though growing up has nothing to do with luck) and wasting your must-be glorious days of your life and let it just fade away. Life is too short for us to be upset and let the happy moments pass in front of us without making use of and experiencing it. Life is too short to get shocked everytime you look at the mirror and see your features are changing, and for you looking older. Life is too short to be afraid of living it and it's definitely too short for you thinking that you're not worth it. No YOU ARE WORTH IT, you were created for a reason and those who think that we were just created to die and there might not be a reason.. I don't accept that, I don't even believe that things might happen without a significant reason. I also don't believe those who have no aim in life, they're just living.. I believe that those people can make a massive change in the world If they just give it a try. And to everybody who are reading this, yes you can do amazing things and make huge difference in the world, because everybody is born to make a difference. You are meant to make a specific change in this world that maybe nobody can make it as perfect as you will.

To sum up all this, growing up isn't that aweful, it's not even terrifying if you can be strong enough to face it. Growing up has that beautiful side, as it keeps sending you messages to stand up and fight for your cause, it doesn't matter how old you are, you're never too young and you're absolutely not too old, and always keep in your mind that It's never too late for something and that no matter how hard the circumstances are, if It's meant to be, It will happen.
Don't be afraid of growing up as it is a thing that we all are passing through every minute of everyday of our lives, so sweet 16.
Sweet complicated 16.