How Nigerian (o.s.h.n)

Introduction

      My name is Arafat and this is my story.  
I was born into a lower, middle class family. Daddy was business man, he had several business which he used to provide for the needs of our family, but despite being a lower middle class child, I never lacked anything I wanted. I was able to live like an upper middle class child like some of my rich classmates back then in school. I had a pretty solid education, went to a good and expensive university where i graduated with a strong second class upper in civil engineering, I am talking 4.0 kind of strong, well, this didn't help in anything concerning Sapa, as I was jobless for almost a year after graduation, but currently, i identify as a self employed graduate. 

I earn money online through social media content engagements and marketing, I am also a discord Administrator. So despite the fact i am not working for some oil company like I was made to believe (God punish all of you that push people to study hard courses in this Nigeria) I am still pretty comfortable financially.

I met my girlfriend in my fourth year in uni she was just the definition of beautiful, she was a biochem scholarship student, the fact she was on scholarship says how smart she was also, my type of girl, brains and face. Right when I saw her I said to myself God abeg if I date this girl, if she agrees to date me I won't waste time I will marry her.

After two and half years in the relationship with my girlfriend, I have realised that I have involuntarily taken up the role as her father, instead of her loving partner. And it is causing me to have second thoughts.