How Nigerian (o.s.h.n)

Is she Ashamed of me

I know that most times girls are the ones that want you to seal the deal, they will be the one disturbing you when will you come and see my people and all that, especially in this Nigeria. Ha for a girl to be avoiding the topic of meeting her parents after years of dating like this, it could mean either she is so afraid cause she knows very well if she is taking her boyfriend to her parents then nothing will happen in their favour and everything will get ruined completely for bad OR she is not so much into that boy. (Gbam)

Maybe she only wants to have a relationship with the guy as much as she can but she is not really ready to think beyond that (that's the marriage part) omo could this be what's in her mind ? Cause if she is not thinking about getting married to the same guy, then truly truly why the hell she would give the guy a positive sign when he says he wants to meet her parents?

she is ashamed of me meeting them? But I'm a fresh boy, rich, self made plus a second class upper graduate o, or are their expectations of the guys she is to be with, someone with higher standards for than me ? or maybe is it that they don't feel she should have a boyfriend at such a young age? haa that one is not possible na she's a graduate she'd be twenty soon Kaii it can't be age.

Maybe she is ashamed of the home life of her people ?. Maybe her parents aren't as good a people as she would like and she is ashamed of the way they live ? the most annoying past is that I can't ask her I can only keep guessing, whenever I bring up this topic this girl gets defensive.

To clear my head i said let me go for a drive which is what I do whenever my mind is weighted down. Luckily for me the road was so free I could drive as slow as I wanted without anyone honking at me, but na Nigeria nothing can ever go so well. On getting to a junction with traffic lights i stopped as it was red and moved as it got to green, can you believe that this V.I.O people stopped me and accused me of beating traffic light ??

"Oga a-beg, how I take beat traffic light",

"young man look your back you see any car for your back, all of them still de there because e been de on red when you pass"

"wait so because there wasn't any vehicle moving with me or at my back, automatically means I beat the traffic light ?

"Yes na if not how come no vehicle still never pass here till now",

Wait o, are they trying to act stupid or are these people actually stupid, you see, one thing Nigeria have in abundance are full blown idiots, big big Idiots, up and down you see them.

The worst part is that most of them are government officials, it's like once you are a Nigerian you are already at a disadvantage in life, i mean these people are so corrupt and always ready to argue with full confidence knowing they have stupidity in their favor.
and this is so unfair against the educated Nigerians in fact any Nigerian with common sense because
You could never win an argument against an idiot, you just can't, I mean how can you argue with someone that will tell you to your very face, when presented with a back item and they say

"my friend, that thing na Red"

how can you win that argument and even if you did it would still be an embarrassment.

These narrow minded fools just want bribe it's not my day they will spoil, I gave them 500 naira and left.

Over the past few months things were different since my girlfriend traveled to see her parents, the sex was now non existent, her number was alway difficult to reach or busy, she calls for money too often iv spent close to 2 million in total on flights, different emergencies, it's just one family problem to the other, her people don't even know the man footing all these bills.

To make matters worse my girlfriend kept shuttling back and forth, my place to her parents place, she told me to get use to this as her parents even wants her to move back with them but she's fighting them over that

. My poor baby, she's really struggling these days, well it's good for her development though, I thought to myself , she'd be more mature, maybe she needs this, I even noticed a certain glow in her, despite all the stress she was getting thicker and finner,

Babe please order bolt for me I'm going out, ahh let me  drive my queen na why use bolt, in my mind I was proud, this is very good she's using bolt now on her own.  Before I'd have had to drive her there and wait for her, now I'm just ordering bolt for her this is a big improvement I'm proud, I ordered the bolt just as she requested and as she was leaving I planted it kiss on her lip babe but she got angry we are outside, stop jor, before entering the car, Kaii e pain me o.