Diary Of Life

Object of the world

Yep today was one of those days.

Treated like an object just for the enjoyment of others.

I know it's not all guys but come on man why are they so fricken stupid in high-school.

PSA You are not an object and should never be compared to one.

Idc who you are you don't deserve to be objectified it sucks.

The whole boys will be boys thing is BS as well.

"Oh boys will be boys" ya no duh Sherlock aren't you supposed to teach them not to act like boys there whole life?

Same with girls aren't you supposed to teach them that as well?

No excuse is more stupid than that.

Each and everyone of us are a miracle to have here.

The fact that you are here right now at what every view number you are at this hour on this month in this year is incredible.

The statistics for that to happen is near to none!

So I know it's hard to be positive in a situation like this but...

YOU ARE SO SPECIAL

Sure it will suck or be way worse(I hope not I really truly hope that doesn't happen to yall but I know it has.)

But you are worth it to be here even though some see you as an object to be played with.

Mt story today is about the fact of being a female in a male dominated area.

Whether it be a sport or musical aspect you can pretty much get the same outcome unfortunately.

I'm going to use being a female trombone in band as an example to put it into perspective.

Ok ok yes I know some places have mostly female trombone sections but that's how it ain't where I'm from mate.

Anyways back to the story I haven't started yet.

When you join into the section you get more attention than expected.

It's kinda cool because you might have thought these guys hated you before because they never talked to you.

Now before I go on I KNOW ITS NOT ALL GUYS OK IM SORRY FOR ALL THE PURE ONES IN THE WORLD MAN

Continuing on my story...

Now this is an apology that was told to me by a quite a few adults about why they started showing interest.

Think about a pack a wolves when they see a fresh slice of meat.

😬IK gross right

Now I can't validate how true this was but seeing how said personal space was disregarded I say it's pretty accurate at least in this situation.

Number one thing you need to know!

When I referred to them as guys in here (if I did) it's just a habit.

They aren't guys they are still boys until they use the capability of being able to mature at that age.

Which many of them don't so remember that.

Number two I don't really have a number two.

Well expect you don't want to date a guy you want to date a man.

Same thing vise versa

Well almost vise versa due to the fact its girl and women and not really a middle word for it which kinda makes since with the correlation in real life.

Butttttt that's just my opinion anyways.

Probably will return to this topic later but for now this is it because I have a migraine

As always I wish you all love and light in your life :)