Yes, I'm/you are transgender, no you may not:
1. Ask about my/your genitals.
2. Ask about my/your deadname.
3. Ask if I/you have had any surgeries.
4. Out me/you in front of strangers.
5. Ask any invasive questions unless I am/you are dating someone, fucking someone, or we're close friends.
You may:
1. Treat me/you with respect, love, compassion. Just like any other Human Being which is what you/I were doing before you/I found out that I'm/your transgender.