FIRST LOVE NEVER DIES
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Does first love never die?
Maybe yes, and maybe no. I have here a story of mine, I was only 7 or 8 years old back then. Nagka-crush ako sa isang lalaki sa kabilang kanto namin. Nakikita ko siya pag nag-iigib sila ng tubig sa bahay ng bestfriend ko. Then naiisip ko siya gabi-gabi akala ko first love na 'yun. (Kung iisipin ang bata ko pa diba, but media taught me about love. That's the negative side of Medias.) simula nun I believe that first love never dies kase since grade 6 siya pa in ang crush ko. But when I enter highschool di ko na siya nakikita then my feeling was gone. Kaya di na ko naniniwala sa "first love never dies." Baka kase infatuation na lang 'yun.
Sabi sa psychology pag nag-exceed ng 3-4 months ang pagiging crush mo sa kanya love na yun. So, pag hindi infatuated ka lang. I can't say na it dies, kase like I said in previous chapter the best foundation of love is friendship. So nasa lalim ng friendship niyo ang pagkakaroon ng first love never dies thingy. I have here my formula on PERFECT RELATIONSHIP.
GOD+FRIENDSHIP+MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING = PERFECT RELATIONSHIP
Why I say God first? Kase ang relationship na may God sa center ay pinagpapala, tumatagal at Masaya. Friendship, ang sunod kase pag-friend mo siya di ka mahihiya na magtago ng personalities mo. I've noticed sa mga may relation ngayon ay they always hide on the good side. "plastic" kung baga. Kase mappride. They want to be perfect in the eyes of their love once. Kung magiging totoo ka sa sarili mo I'm sure di ka mahihirapan magtago ng sarili mo, especially sa taong mahal mo. Di ka rin matatakot magkamali kase alam mong mahal ka niya no matter what and no matter how.
Mutual understanding ang last, kase I believe na kapag mas kilala mo ang nararamdaman niya or ang pagkatao niya or simply transparent kayo sa isa't-isa especially sa feelings niyo. Everything is fine.
These three (3) for me is the formula in love.
BINABASA MO ANG
LOVE DIARIES
Short StoryThis story tells about different stories of common humans that once fell in love, once hurt and felt to be loved by someone. The first 12 chapters are the books itself titled "love diaries" the remaining chapters are the stories of different peoples.
